I've Had It - I Just Can't Do it Anymore

by troubled 48 Replies latest jw friends

  • hawkaw
    hawkaw
    I can do my research alone.

    You need help doing the research. The reason for my comments were simple. You aren't focusing and you reach conclusions without looking at the facts properly and you are not looking at all of the facts. You are all over the place which makes your posting all over the place.

    You told me yesterday after some serious conversations that you hadn't look at everything wrt the UN issue. Got it - understand - you need to learn how to research. Want to learn? I can kinda teach you to do it on your own so you won't have to worry about relying on others.

    I have enough problems in my life without putting up with more crap. I need a little happiness in my life and I'm not finding it here.

    That is right - I can see you have serious problems and you need serious help. I am really worried about the two of you (your husband and you). You both need help. I can read it. This forum is what you want it to be and it does have some tough characters on it but you dished it back pretty good too. Think I needed it? You smacked me around pretty good and I was just trying to be honest.

    You need to focus. You were starting too yesterday. You realized you hadn't quite looked at everything and you were going back to look at the other responses. You also realized that you needed to think about your husband.

    You want help. I can help - don't want it that is fine too. I'll go easy but you got to slow down and absorb and you have to get professional help.

    You make me uncomfortable - no way.

    hawk

  • Naeblis
    Naeblis

    Yes I'm an active witness and an elder. I am devoid of all qualities that are noble and just and good. I also like to drink baby blood and sacrifice virgins to Virginor, god of intact Hymens.

  • Escargot
    Escargot

    Stand strong, have no fear, fight the fine fight. Think of all the viewers that do not post who have read your posts....why should their opinion of you be worth more than your opinion of yourself.

  • battman
    battman

    hiya troubled,

    hang in there.

    my e-mail address is " [email protected]"

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    If you want to leave then leave.If you want to stay then stay.If you want to leave and come back,then leave and come back.JUST STOP WHINING!!Not everybody is going to agree with you,including me,so what?Every one has there own ideas and view on life,thats the way it is.So,take a deep breath,calm down and think about it.In the mean time..HAVE A NICE DAY EH!!...OUTLAW

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Troubled,

    Email me when you can.

    HS

  • Mum
    Mum

    I think you're "troubled" because you are too concerned about the opinions of others. You are giving others 'way too much power. Take it back! It is risky to post messages if you place others above yourself and give them so much power. You are allowed to disagree with anyone's response to your posts.

    You won't be "happy" at the hall, here, or anywhere else until you learn to find that happiness within yourself and stop looking for others to give it to you.

    Best wishes,
    Mum

  • moman
    moman

    Troubled, I can only speak 4 myself, however, I suspect this would apply 2 others az well.
    The reason you are called names iz because most X-JW's are embarrased at themselves for buying this phony religion, & therefor when you try to uphold it, in any way, it reminds them of how STUPID they were & they take it out on you with name calling etc. !
    -fastone-

  • Pureheart
    Pureheart

    Hi Troubled,

    I read your posts so that I could understand you concern. You are very intellectual and bring out good points. I can see that you are loyal to what you believe in and everyone else whose posts that I read are loyal to what they believe in. Just because our opinions sometimes don't agree with others or thiers with ours doesn't mean that we shut up. Keep talking, keep posting, keep reading, and stick to your guns.
    Overall I sense that you like being here, as I do. If you leave you will wonder what is going on. Stay and keep ruffling a few feathers.

    Pureheart

  • ISP
    ISP

    Hey Troubled....just concentrate on the facts and the truth. You will get there. I takes time. It did for me.

    ISP

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