ok men of JWD help a girl out.

by LouBelle 35 Replies latest jw friends

  • Burger Time
    Burger Time

    He might be trying to see if your a prude.....good measuring tool.

  • feenx
    feenx

    I agree with stillajwexelder.

    As someone who has had nothing but female friends his whole life, trust me, to one degree or another it's on his mind. But really, guys are not that hard to figure out. I dont think he means anything by his jokes other than what they are: a way to laugh about sex. Where it leads, well that remains to be seen. But I say dont try to analyze it so much, have some fun and go with the flow.

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Lou Belle,

    The one thing you need to learn about men is that most of us are just giant schoolboy's. So imagine your friend in short trousers and a cap and when he starts being stupid, slap his face and send him to his room.

    That, he will understand.

    He sounds like he is just after sex. Tell him if he he wants it, you want to see three months evidence of wages, would like to know how much alimony he has to pay, and that you expect a 1 carat F1 diamond as part of the negotiation.

    HS

  • LtCmd.Lore
    LtCmd.Lore
    He sounds like he is just after sex. Tell him if he he wants it, you want to see three months evidence of wages, would like to know how much alimony he has to pay, and that you expect a 1 carat F1 diamond as part of the negotiation.

    Prostitution is illegal you know.

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    I knew a guy who claimed he had excellent success with the following line "If you play your cards right, you could have me tonight"

  • Homerovah the Almighty
    Homerovah the Almighty

    The question is whether you like him as a person first, and I think your on the right track by going on casual dates.

    It does sound like he wants to pursue a more closer relationship by his frank innuendos and mannerisms

    Sex is easy to instigate, a happy loving relationship is not, plan yourself accordingly

  • worldtraveller
    worldtraveller

    Although I am out of touch with dating in the 21st century, I believe the correct phrase is "hooking up". Aparrently he as some "junk in his trunk" and wants to hook up. If you are ready-hey let's hook up. Much nicer than phrases in the 20th century-like.......... . Oh never mind.

  • kurtbethel
    kurtbethel

    A man taking you on a date is evidence he is interested in sex.

    Sexually loaded comments confirm this.

    One comment that I have found has a high closure rate:

    "Well you are really cute, but......"

    That can cause a woman to wonder why she does not measure up to what he wants and be willing to prove to him that she is desirable.

    Paradoxical thinking, to an average guy.

  • reneeisorym
    reneeisorym

    (Note: My husband and I are married now and I'm not nearly as promiscuous as I once was.)

    Then again, what do I know? I had a guy I worked with that claimed a 15% success rate with the line: "Wanna f**k?"

    Ooh my -- I had a guy try this on me once and it worked ! LOL

  • JK666
    JK666

    renee,

    Nearly?! OMG.

    JK

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