ok men of JWD help a girl out. (page 4)

FlyingHighNow

I knew a guy who claimed he had excellent success with the following line "If you play your cards right, you could have me tonight"

He'd have to be someone very special for that to work. He was probably exaggerating. I'd have responded, "Yeah, you and my pick of several other guys." A guy like that needs to be put right in his place.

Yeah, but the thing is, they are all confused about it. They want sex very badly, but they don't want it to be too easy to get into your pants or too much of a challenge.
it is a man's perogative to try, and a woman's to refuse

This is true. Be careful what you wish for.

BizzyBee

As a Woman of JWD (who dated a lot - till meeting Mr. Bee)

Let me say - forget the sex - this will either work itself out or not - sex is the easy part.

I'm afraid he sounds like a boor -

1. A person with rude, clumsy manners and little refinement. 2. A peasant.

[Dutch boer , from Middle Dutch gheboer ; see bheu- in Indo-European roots.] Synonyms: boor, barbarian, churl, lout 1 , vulgarian, yahoo A man past 30 should be able to converse intelligently without constantly reverting to sexual innuendoes, the lowest common denominator of social intercourse (no pun intended). That's not conversation - it's babysitting. You shouldn't have to put up with his arrested development.

JWdaughter

Renee, me too. Freaks you out to think of it, huh?

OP:I think he is throwing out bait. Throw out some of your own and see what happens. Tit for tat, so to speak.

LtCmd.Lore

right now I'm quite happy being friends.

Then why change anything?

Maybe he wants sex, maybe he doesn't. Makes no difference either way, since you're happy as is, until he tells you he wants a change.

Unless of course you actually DO want to have sex, in which case my advice is:

... ask if you want to move into a sexual relationship. Don't beat around the bush, or play games

LouBelle

okay back at work and back to sex (eerm ya)....

right - well I had a good laugh at some of those replies esp wwilldabeerman, minimus ( I may go with this direct approach) 007 - how did you know I love sssssssushi and ssssasusage ....

Some of you also have a point about maturity/imaturity - So will take it day by day - will be seeing him on Thursday I think - yes Valentines Day - we'll see how that goes. I think the man is very sexually frustrated and may want to get it ooon.

Right now I may not necessarily need to love someone to have a bit of fun.

Hmm I don't know if I'll post a Thread updating this if the "nasty" is done

berylblue

I've never minded the direct approach - I have used it on more than one occassion. Because I'm a woman, it had a 100 percent success rate. Not that I did it a lot, but I've always wondered why women can say "wanna fuck" and have such a great response, while men do not.

ok men of JWD help a girl out.