by LouBelle 35 Replies latest jw friends
Then again, what do I know? I had a guy I worked with that claimed a 15% success rate with the line: "Wanna f**k?"
I had a friend who always did that. He operated on the assumption that, sooner or later, someone would say yes. He got laid more than any of us. He also got slapped more than any of us. I guess he figured it was worth it.
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Any guy who is dating a girl (being friends what ever you want to call it) has sex on his mind. TRUST ME
Yeah, but the thing is, they are all confused about it. They want sex very badly, but they don't want it to be too easy to get into your pants or too much of a challenge. I add that once you give into it, you can't take it back. You don't say you feel pressured. If you are, don't let it influence your decisions.
LOUBELLE - O.K. I too am happily married for a year and a half now , but was single for 6 years or so before meeting my current wife - and dated lots of women on and off before I met my lovely wife. My take is if a guy is constantly talking innuendos about sex and only jokes about it with you - he could be very insecure about actually having sex with a woman. My wife tells me that when she used to see a man constantly joke about it in every discussion of things - she thought it made a man look immature and juvenile like he really didn't view sex in the proper light .
I always had good luck with just being complementary to a woman , making her feel like she was special , look into her eyes , and value what she says , tell her she was the most beautiful woman ever - at least it worked well with Mrs. Flipper . Didn't have to joke about sex- just let my actions speak louder than my jokes or words ! Loubelle - just make sure you are dating a man who is mature about sexual matters. You will be able to tell in time
Way to go Flipper,
Are you trying to make me look bad by being mature?
JK
Yeah, whatever happened to the fine art of seduction?
JK- Hey bud, you know my wife and I enjoy your jokes ! Your jokes about sex are funny ! We know you'd never use that humor to get into a woman's pants - being so chaste and all ! Peace out, Mr. Flipper
Yeah, but the thing is, they are all confused about it. They want sex very badly, but they don't want it to be too easy to get into your pants or too much of a challenge.
it is a man's perogative to try, and a woman's to refuse
Well, i'm not in the game very much, but i have heard that, around here, having sex is something they do as part of the trial run. Sort of to see how good they are together. Maybe it would be a fork in the road, so to speak *suppresses snicker* of your relationship. Find out quickly, if it's a good bet, or a dud (so to speak).
S
Ps, i really didn't plan to make any double entendres. I think my computer is domenoized.
It depends...this kind of joking around can be "creepy old lecher" icky, or "cute schoolboy" sweet...if you like him, you can see where it goes, but in either case he won't go much more forward until you give him a pretty clear sign where you want to go.
Lot's of good advice already...
If he's joking like that, you know what's on his mind. Don't be a false advertiser; if you're not into it, make sure he knows.
