They tell me he has girlfriends spend the night,
glad that you didnt get raked over the coals like so many do every year. just wanted to say WOW....... there you go right there. if you can come up with proof that he EVER has a girl in his apartment overnight. thats your proof right there. videotape it. that is grounds for disfellowshiping and would definately get you your freedom to remarry. the fact that he went inside without a chaperone and the young lady didnt leave untill much later or preferably till the morning........ what would his neighbors think? boom done deal......... just her being there is grounds. typical jw gulty until proven innocent.
back when i was regular pioneering(before i left the cult) i met for feild circus and the only person there was a sister so she got dropped off by her husband. chick knew another young sister that mentioned that she would like to go out with us(i doubt like really) sometime but couldnt get up. so i let this sister drive my vehicle to pick up the other sister and when they came back to the hall.......... older sister got out and got into the back seat..... i got in and off we went. just as elders wife was pulling in the parking lot for a bible study.
next thing i know im pulled into the back room and bawled out for going out in service with a single sister. im clueless so i asked them what they are talking about. so they layed it all out for me......... and how that brings reproach upon jehovah. mind you i had NEVER been in trouble for ANYTHING in the cong, my father was the PO and had been for a decade. so no benefit of the doubt they were ready to rake me over the coals.
sister said she saw me with a young sister(insert kinda HOT) and we drove off........
i said...... yeah with sister XXXX in the back.......... (dark black sister wearing black behind dark tinted windows) so that took all the wind out of their sails. cause of course she confirmed.
if she wasnt there or hadnt have said so........... they automaticly assumed that me and this young sister went out and fornicated, why? was it becase i ever expressed interest in this young sister....... no..... it was because i had the equipment and so did she and there was no one to pull us apart.
so if the elders gonna jump me for NOTHING then you prove your ex had a girl in his apt.... they gonna say he had the equipment and opportunity............. done deal.