PureAlb wrote: well i guess thats what religion is,once u accept any religion u have to live with it
Here's a catch. What if you accept a religious belief and your whole family joins you and you become completely involved in the religion. What if then the religion changes its doctrine and you really just cannot understand what the new teaching is. What if it just does not make sense to you? What if you deep in your heart feel that parts of the doctrine have changed to something that is really wrong??
Should you stay? Should you leave??
What if your family and friends don't notice the change and the couple of people you mention your own feelings to tell you to be quiet because if you say too much you will be expelled?
What if you really believe that following the revised doctrine jeopardizes your own standing before god?
So, suppose you leave.
Then your family and friends avoid you because they think you are dangerous. And they probably think you are covering a 'secret sin' and have a guilty conscience. But you don't. You just have a troubled conscience because you really want to be a part of the religion but it's this new doctrine that is hurting your conscience - not anything that you personally have done. The religion changed.
So now you have separated youself from the religion just a little bit - but the religion and your friends and your family have separated themselves from you a whole lot more.
You are sad and lonely but you still believe in God and pray for his love and guidance. But you have noone (no human) to talk to because family and friends have distanced themselves and are afraid to hear what it troubling you and people outside of the religion do not understand the dynamics of the group. Plus, those outside the religion are considered 'worldly' - and that's a bad thing to Jehovah's Witnesses. And you beleive that all 'worldly' people are bad and immoral, too.
Now what do you???
If you are like many of us here on JWD, you quietly close the door to your study and turn on the computer hoping noone will see you or find out what you are doing. You start doing some research for yourself to understand what this new doctrine is about, the reasoning behind it, and how it can affect you and others. You research to match it to bible doctrine. in your own personal, private, 'secret' research and study you find that there are others who have been feeling the exact same way about this doctrine and whoa!! there's a slew of other issues that don't make sense either.
Now what do you do??
And what do you do when someone pops in and tells you that the reason you are no longer part of the religion is simply because you cannot live up to the high moral standards of the religion?
Maybe its the religion that hasn't lived up to yours.
Think about it.
-Aude Sapere (meaning: Dare to Know; Dare to Have Wisdom/Understanding)