Something is seriously wrong here. First you sound VERY young. Second there is no way you would be a presiding overseer or a circuit overseer without first being an MS and and Elder for a long time and there is therefore, no way you would be asking these questions since you would have first hand experience with how judicial committees work. And your behavior with the sisters seems less than credible as well since your behavior as an elder is supposed to be above reproach.
maybe you could clarify