Point (4) There is no recruitment. The Good News of the Kingdom is being preached worldwide as Scripturally foretold. Again no man-made rule.
It's not like anyone is holding a gun to someone's head and saying ... 'you'd better join'. We aren't talking about baboons or morons. Everyone has the freedom to choose to accept or reject the message.
What are you talking about, NO RECRUITMENT? - you know as well as we do that JWs are supposed to be recruiting new members with every waking moment of their lives, if possible. Of course they are saying "you'd better join". The gun to someones head is destruction at Armageddon.
The carrot is the completely unbiblical idea of an eternal paradise earth, and the many-times failed hope that it would come in the person's mortal lifespan here on earth. A hope that has failed again and again for untold thousands of victims..
Everyone has the freedom to accept or reject the message until they have been brainwashed, as you have apparantly been. After that, escape is ugly and difficult - many times at the loss of a spouse or family.
Point (1). When young children are baptized it is their decision. They come from families who are already serving Jehovah. They aren't pulled off the streets and forced into baptism.
Point (3) Not being able to remarry except on the grounds of adultery is Scriptural .. not a manmade law.
Point (2) The screaming during rape is a Biblical mandate ... not made up by man.
Kids less than legal age cannot fully make such a decision. If they are from JW families, then they have been moulded into this for a lifetime - making it even more impossible for them to guage what they are doing. It is not a free decision.
The idea that you cannot divorce a person for nearly killing you is immoral. If you do not think it is biblical, so be it - but it is better than being killed.
There are many circumstances in which a person could not scream, but was truly raped. Your JW idea of this law is like the Talmud.
Christianity is based on compassion and mercy - not on a rote set of inflexible laws. The JW have gone so far beyone biblical basis for many of their laws that it no longer matters whether they can or can not point to some vague scripture for a basis...smoking would be a great example of this. No where in the bible, but as much a DF offense to the JWs as a rape while you were being throttled into silence.