Dear Sister Rosalee,
Point (1). When young children are baptized it is their decision. They come from families who are already serving Jehovah. They aren't pulled off the streets and forced into baptism.
As a born-in, I can assure you every single minor baptized in my KH did so at the pressure of both parents & Elders.....none of them understood the fulll impact of their dedication to the spirit-directed organization..... Even Jesus was 'about' 30.
Point (2) The screaming during rape is a Biblical mandate ... not made up by man.
This is a mosaic law.....
***w06 10/15 p.6 Taking in Knowledge of God — How?***
Jesus came to fulfill the Mosaic Law, which served as "a shadow of the good things to come." (Hebrews 10:1; Matthew 5:17; Luke 24:44, 45) Taking its place was "the law of the Christ," which is far superior to the Mosaic Law.—Galatians 6:2; Romans 13:10; James 2:8.
Point (3) Not being able to remarry except on the grounds of adultery is Scriptural .. not a manmade law.
Actually it on the grounds of 'fornication' which of course is translated from the word 'pornea' which has a broader meaning then just intercourse, but anyone divorcing and remarrying without those grounds subjects themselves to committing adultery....
Point (4) There is no recruitment. The Good News of the Kingdom is being preached worldwide as Scripturally foretold. Again no man-made rule.
(Matthew
28:18-20) . . ..
19 Go therefore and make disciples of people of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the holy spirit,
20 teaching them to observe all the things I have commanded YOU. . . .
(1
Corinthians4:6) . . ."Do not go beyond the things that are written," in order that YOU may not be puffed up individually in favor of the one against the other.
Unfortunately, the imperfect slave has been known to" go beyond the things that are written".
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w55 7/1 p.411 par.15 Christian Baptism for the New World Society***15
A Christian, therefore, cannot be baptized in the name of the one actually doing the immersing or in the name of any man, nor in the name of any organization, but in the name of the Father, the Son and the holy spirit. This shows, among other things, that Christianity is not a denominational affair, that sects have nothing to do with it. "Does the Christ exist divided? Paul was not impaled for you, was he? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul? I am thankful I baptized none of you except Crispus and Gaius, so that no one may say that you were baptized in my name."—1 Cor. 1:13-15, NW.
The day the WTS decided to make the baptism a membership ritual into the WTS, it became recruitment for the WTS, thus going beyond what was written and blaspheming Jehovah's clear arrangement.
It's not like anyone is holding a gun to someone's head and saying ... 'you'd better join'. We aren't talking about baboons or morons. Everyone has the freedom to choose to accept or reject the message.
The message.... which message? The gospel of Christ as found in the Bible, or the rearview mirror revisions of Rutherford, and later Franz.. and still subject to further 'interpretation' by future GB members?........ Think about this before responding....What happened in 1918-1919, what we proclaim happened, why and when did the WTS announce all of this in it's publications.....What was so important about "The Finished Mystery"............. (BTW I have known parents who told their daughter to "get baptized or get kicked out to their 17 year old.... a year later the ultimatium was get married to a parent & elder approved selected JW or get out)......yes it all turned out very bad..no gun but just as effective.
If you read all BonaFide's posts you will see he has not suffered shunning.
Yes, technically he is not DFd, DAd, or publically reproofed....... but he is being treated as "marked" ....and yes when you are 'marked' you are shunned by most of the congregation as being a bad association, following the BOE's lead.
TO ALL THE BOARD...
As far as the rest......as a person that has had former foreign MTS assigned to my congregation as SPs......many of the men are quite immature in their social skills. Youth was given to the organization, most of them have limited female interaction, are used to following a set of guidelines, rarely thinking for themselves...... everything was about furthering the preaching work...... JW first, JW position, and then a person.
So it is not so far fetched, from my personal experience...... kinda like my old Phlebotomy Instructor....he spent 25+ years in the military (signed up in HS), and was constantly shocked by civilians failing to act on his immediate orders. The lack of regiment in civilian society, having to make broad personal decisions for himself. He too is socially awkward ....similar to BFs stressing out posts and with the opposite sex.......