Turn back on God because of WTS or JW's??

by IWish4Truth 48 Replies latest jw friends

  • NameWithheld
    NameWithheld

    Wow Seeker4 - well said. <clap clap>

    Why is it so many come out of the JWs but never really open their eyes. They sound like a rehashed WT article over and over. Open your eyes to the real world here. If you think times are so bad, go find a cave to live in, wipe your but with dead leaves, forage for food, and die toothless at 30 years old. Or maybe you'd get the plague and die at 20.

    Big sky daddy has never done a thing for humans yet. Will he? I don't think so, but even if he does what are YOU supposed to do about it?

  • AlanF
    AlanF

    IWish4Truth said:

    : In my opinion, it's one thing to not agree with organizations that impose
    : certain rules upon it's members,

    True.

    : but it's quite another to turn one's back on God Himself because of disagreements.

    There's a big problem with this statement: you uncritically assume that your
    "God" is the God of the Bible and that this God actually exists. Can you prove
    it? No, you can't. It's just something that's part of your faith. Plenty of
    people who leave the JWs find for the first time that they can examine questions
    such as the existence of God without the fetters of preconceived notions
    usually acquired in childhood. Once they do, they often conclude that the idea
    of "God" is unsupportable, if not outright nonsense. Note that this is not
    necessarily based merely on a reaction against JW teaching, but on a careful
    study of a great deal of evidence.

    Sure, there are plenty of people who just want to do whatever they please, and
    they use their leaving of the JWs as an excuse for what some would call "loose
    living". But plenty of others begin to use their minds, often for the first
    time, and continue living "moral" and, by most everyone's standard, ethical
    lives, and blossom into what they should have been all along. They use their
    minds to conclude that "God", if it exists at all, is irrelevant in day-to-day
    living, because it has no discernable effect.

    I know plenty of extremely moral people, for example, who tried to stick with
    some sort of Christian faith, and found that nothing that Christians claim
    about God actually works. Prayer is useless except as a placebo -- and
    a self-administered placebo at that. When great effort results in zero return,
    a reasonable person will give up.

    : Is there not still some Higher Power out there who has the best interest
    : of humans at heart?

    I seriously doubt it. The claim that this Power has their long term
    interests at heart, and that all the pain and suffering experienced by a great
    deal of mankind daily, for thousands of years, is simply part of God's plan,
    is nonsense. What kind of father allows his innocent children to suffer
    terribly when he can easily prove a point to his critics in other ways? Really,
    the whole JW-Fundamentalist notion of God having to prove something to Satan
    and the rest of intelligent creation is a fairy-tale made up by people who
    couldn't explain 'evil' in the world any other way.

    : How can it be denied, especially in these terrible times, that something or
    : someone is gonna have to step in and take over and end this havoc.

    Ah, the standard "argument from incredulity" appears: "Everything is so bad,
    there has to be a solution!" This is mere wishful thinking. That and a
    few nickels for God will surely solve the world's problems.

    : Surely no human or government can fix the real problems at hand, or can they?

    Time will tell. Mankind has only very recently come up with amazing improvements
    in all sorts of areas, both technically and in human relations. Experience is a
    bitter teacher, to be sure, but it is a sure teacher. For all its problems,
    the world of mankind today is in far better shape than it was 300 years ago.
    Other posters have given proof of this.

    An interesting point is that governments themselves are far more concerned with
    "human rights" than they were a few hundred years ago. This is an extremely big
    change in historical terms. A couple of thousand years ago the notion that a
    government should be concerned with such didn't even exist. For the most part,
    individuals existed to serve the government, not the other way around. People
    served various religious organizations, not the other way around.

    It's pretty easy to prove that overall, the state of mankind is far better
    today than ever before: When would you rather live? Today, or in 14th-century
    Europe? Why? Is there any time that you can point to that would be better for
    most of mankind to live in than today? If so, please tell us, and explain your
    reasoning.

    : Especially not the WTS or any JW I know.

    Irrelevant.

    : Have you ever had God's Holy Spirit?

    No, and neither has anyone else. Show me a man who claims to have it, and I'll
    show you a charlatan or a nutcase.

    Here's a great example of both: JWs claim that their elders are "appointed by
    holy spirit". That means that most JWs literally believe that "holy spirit"
    is involved in the selecting and appointing process -- that it is God and/or
    "Holy Spirit" that is directly involved in and, in practice, literally
    inspires
    other JWs in the process of selecting a new elder. Yet in practice,
    the Watchtower Society spends a good deal of time instructing elders how to be
    very careful in their selection process. They even teach that making an improper
    selection could result in serious harm to other JWs, or legal liability for
    the Watchtower organization, if the new elder screws up. How's that for
    believing two diametrical opposites at the same time? That holy spirit virtually
    inspires the appointment of elders, but that this process is prone to errors?
    As if God/Holy Spirit is prone to errors! Obviously, the claim that JW elders
    are "appointed by holy spirit" is the claim of nutcases, and the deliberate
    suppression of the sure knowledge that this claim is false is the work of
    mere charlatans.

    : If so, who gave it to you??

    The tooth fairy. Who gave it to you?

    : Certainly not the WTS or any group or person. As an ex-JW, do you feel you
    : have that protection?

    At various times I prayed hard, in all sincerity, for solutions to problems.
    Nothing ever happened. That gradually killed the faith I was taught to have
    as a child.

    To RR:

    : People love to "throw the baby out with the bathwater," and then condemn you
    : when you don't.

    Some do, some don't. What you're doing here is particularly noisome -- lumping
    everyone who doesn't believe as you do into one big unpleasant category of
    "those who deny God for their own selfish pleasure." I thought better of you,
    Rolando. Now your self-righteousness is showing. Sadly, this almost always
    happens with Christians, no matter how decent they appear for awhile.

    You're also being quite hypocritical by complaining that some people condemn
    you when you don't go along with them, and in the same breath turning around
    and doing exactly the same thing.

    Now comes the standard refrain of the self-righteous Christian:

    : I guess it easier to throw everything out, that way, you don't feel
    : responsible to any "higher power" but yourself and then you can focus on
    : your own selfish needs as oppose to doing God's will.

    Don't judge everyone else by your own inner motives. Some of us remain ethical
    and moral because of an inner sense of such, not because we're afraid of getting
    killed by some higher power if we don't.

    : Personally, I left "Jehovah's Organization" I did not leave Jehovah, and
    : serve him unreservedly.

    Good for you.

    Now get off your self-righteous soap box and show some "Christian qualities".

    Very good comments, JT, Larc, Seeker4 and Abaddon!

    AlanF

  • RR
    RR

    I'm not on any soapbox Alan, and don't believe I have a self-righteousness attitude. As to my being Christians, consider, because of my beliefs, most orthodox christians will still consider me a cult member.

    My problem is not so much with ex-witnesses "throwing out the baby with the bathwater" it's more with those who want to blame the Society for EVERYTHING gone wrong in their life.

    Beating their chesting crying out "woe is me!" Hey, the Society made rules, either you broke them, or decided not to play by them, and so you all paid the price. Everyone has rules, you don't like it leave, and stop whining about what your life could have been, and GET A LIFE!!!!

    ____________________________
    "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional."

  • ISP
    ISP

    'throwing the baby out with the bathwater'.....interesting! But not appropriate. If the 'baby' is the truth or the truth about God...it has by no means been thrown away. In fact when you are free from the mind control of the WTS you soon realise it was the WTS that 'threw the baby out with the bathwater' and you can explore the truth!

    ISP

  • SEAKEN2001
    SEAKEN2001

    I really don't have the time to type this reply because I'm too busy seeking my own selfish desire and acting immorally. But, just this once, I'll take a break from my self-serving life to comment on this all-important and all-consuming subject of God.

    Please, when will it ever be allowed that people can make up their own mind about God and religion without being cast into the "evil" sin-seeking world of wicked "atheists" and god-haters and persecuters of his chosen people.

    When you who espouse the belief in God criticize non-believers, do you ever step back and listen to yourself? Have you ever asked yourself, "if God is so good and the very epitome of love why is it such a big deal that we question him, even to the point of disagreeing with his 'hands off' policy"? I think to myself, if I am God I will allow anyone to question me and beleive as he/she sees fit. If I were of any other mind I would be false to what I myself claim to have given freely to all humans.

    If you are comfortable with believing in a active God who actually participates in your life that is fine for you. I have absolutely no problem accepting you when you hold to those beliefs, nor do I have a problem with your discussing with me those beliefs. But why is it so hard for you to accept my lack of those same beliefs and accuse me of some wicked act if I attempt to discuss my beliefs with you? There is something wrong with that.

    I imagine there are some among you christians who can honestly accept people who do not beleive in your god. But people of that sort are not in the majority among you. On the other hand, there appears to many among the "atheist" community of mankind who accept a wide variety of fellow humans regardless of what "god" they claim to obey and worship. I'm sorry, but I just could not continue to claim some sort of special relationship with God while associating with some so-called christain group, by whatever name. Actually, my understanding of Jesus Christ, is that he objected to ritual beliefs and religous attitudes in general. He believed in the Father and claimed to immitate him. That was it. He didn't make a big deal out of who believed in what and who joined or didn't join. Perhaps he was saying it doesn't matter what you believe as long as you're acting divinely, or being God.

    But that just won't do will it? You will have to point out that man cannot be God, and on, and on, and on. You think it's so important to be right about God. You're right because God says you're right and God's right. Right?

    Great comments from some of the other "atheists" here.

    BTW, if I had to classify myself I would claim more to be a Deist than an Atheist. Not that it matters, but I prefer to believe in God and in life beyond our fleshly existence. No bathwater or babies were involved in this decision.

    Sean

  • RR
    RR

    Sean

    I think to myself, if I am God I will allow anyone to question me and beleive as he/she sees fit. If I were of any other mind I would be false to what I myself claim to have given freely to all humans.

    LOL .... that's exactly what got us into this mess in the first place. Humans feeling they didn't ned God, or that they could live without him. God is God, He makes the rules. He created this universe, and everything in it. You don't like it "get off!"

    ____________________________
    "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional."

  • Seeker4
    Seeker4

    RR,

    Your comment to Sean puts in a nutshell the problem with your god. He's such a peevish, grumpy, insecure little fellow, always demanding to be obeyed and threatening death and destruction to any who would do otherwise or dare question him. A REAL god would simply have to be a cut above these worst of human qualities. But I'm afraid that your god simply reflects the saddest attributes of his creators - scared, arrogant, grumpy, cruel and power hungry little men who rule, not by wisdom and love, but by threats and coercion.

    No, Sean's simple post made more sense, and was more appealing to both the heart and mind, than a thousand of your posts or a million threats from your silly god.

    S4

  • Abaddon
    Abaddon

    RR; You funny guy! You shoot self in foot! You not feel it as brain on holiday!

    As to my being Christians, consider, because of my beliefs, most orthodox christians will still consider me a cult member.
    No, no, most 'orthodox' human beings (the ones who talk out their mouths) would consider you a cult memeber as your arguement for the existence of god consists of saying there is one.

    C o g n i t i v e D i s s o n a n c e ! !

    Do you even know what that means?

    My problem is not so much with ex-witnesses "throwing out the baby with the bathwater" it's more with those who want to blame the Society for EVERYTHING gone wrong in their life.

    Beating their chesting crying out "woe is me!" Hey, the Society made rules, either you broke them, or decided not to play by them, and so you all paid the price. Everyone has rules, you don't like it leave, and stop whining about what your life could have been, and GET A LIFE!!!!

    Ah, but we weren't talking about that, were we? We were discussing about how not believeing in god and not believing that JW's are the truth are two different things.

    One thing. Two things. Different. See?

    Now, you introduce a third thing, that xJW's blame everything on the WTBTS.

    Nobody was talking about that, silly, or are you trying to change the subject as you have no-where to go with the initial lame postulate of this thread?

    Also, it's not even true. I don't detect any great amount of chest beating by people saying 'woe is me'. I think you're lying, as well as changing the subject as your losing. It seems people are jumping up and down saying 'I've never been happier', or 'how can we help people still in that damned cult', both indications of having a life.

    Your logic regarding rules is truely dire; I suppose Jews in Nazi Germany should have just left. Please make sense or go away.

    Sean; Yahoo!! I lovely post!!

    "Perhaps he was saying it doesn't matter what you believe as long as you're acting divinely, or being God."

    Yup, I agree, and very nicely put, AND I'm an atheist...

    People living in glass paradigms shouldn't throw stones...

  • nowaytess
    nowaytess

    O agree they blame the Society for everything that has gone wrong in their lives.

    I felt the Wt made it easy for people to live in denial of their problems. If they had a problem with a "Wordly Person," in the back of their minds they were another class of citizen. Many would view the Worldly person rebuke or critisim as a farm of "Attack," angasit Jehovah (WT) and his People (JWS) The JW may have never stop to consder maybe it was their own behavior and the JW may be in the wrong.

    Same thought as if something were going on in the KH, ORG, or if they had a rift with another JW. Don't question or say mcuh because Jehovah will take of the problem in his due time. so discussions and confrontation would be avoided. Also it put the JW in the victim role and kept them there.

    A true Christian will try to solve the problem and take responsiblity for the actions. It is very important that every person must do some soul searching. JW mentality prevents any from of personal growth.

    There are times when a Christian is persicuted for their fatih. As a Chrsitin we must discern between what is an attack for our fatih and what is not.

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  • RR
    RR

    Well, it's all well and easy to say, there is no God and so I'll do what I want, that is pretty much the gist of it all. The original post from "IWish4Truth" was

    In my opinion, it's one thing to not agree with organizations that impose certain rules upon it's members, but it's quite another to turn one's back on God Himself because of disagreements.

    And I stand by my statement. Most xjws have a complex, they've been deceived all their lives and when they learn the truth about the Watchtower their so angry that instead of searching for God or making sense of Him, they abandon Him and turn their backs. It's easier to deny something, that way you're not responsible.

    I'm not condemning anyone to death, I know what the scriptures teach, MY God is a much more loving God than that of the Watchtower.

    I find it ironic, that you sit in judgment of me and call me self-righteous becauze I believe in God all the while you yourself are tooting your own own saying "there is no God" or "who cares." Get a life man!

    ____________________________
    "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional."

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