Richer men are more attractive than poor men. (page 5)

mtsgrad

Let me clarify.

You meet this guy who is emotionally balanced and cares about you (yes they do exist). He tries hard to make a good living but only just scrapes by.

His clone is stinking rich. Would you love him more?

I am convinced unconditional love is a fallacy. "No romance without finance" is very true. True love is more than just the person it is also partially what they bring to the table. Believe me financially secure guys get more interest (for whatever reasons) then destitute men who try their best. Love my be blind but it is not stupid.

mtsgrad

JeffT

JeffT, those are the wrong women. Would you really want to be surrounded by gorgeous young shallow gold diggers?

What I want is irrelevant, even if I wanted to be surrounded by gorgeous young shallow gold diggers...uh what was the question again? OK I'm back. The point is, gorgeous shallow gold diggers exist, and for obvious reasons they don't hang out with people like me. If Hef had my income those women wouldn't be caught dead with him.

beksbks

The point is, gorgeous shallow gold diggers exist, and for obvious reasons they don't hang out with people like me. If Hef had my income those women wouldn't be caught dead with him.

Of course they exist, but are they the majority of women?? Obviously not, you have a wife haven't you? I'm shuuuure that you are far more attractive than Donald Trump could even dream of.

Brother Apostate

There's a lid for every pot.

"Rich" is defined differently by different women.

It's defined as material wealth by many.

It's defined as spiritual wealth by some.

Then there's things like good conversation, understanding, cuddling, shared experiences, lovemaking, etc.

Most important, is real love.

BA- There's more to it than meets the eye.

yknot

MTSGrad

Security and a sense of protection do tend to play into the female mindset but there are still variable that play into the mix. Who does the woman meet first, how long before she meets the clone, and does the clone pursue her even though she is with the other guy.

Frankly your being too superficial.

Why is the poorer chap barely scraping by?

Is he unwise with money, under-educated, or does he simply lack ambition?

Wouldn't the desire for female companionship urge him to seek better means, doesn't ""she"" inspire him to be a better man?

If this is related your own personal situation (boy that was fast from filing to dating).....take your time and let the closing credits finish.

Take some time to improve your financial lot though college or whatnot........

Ask yourself what kind of person you want to attract and who you will become now after this last chapter is ending.

mtsgrad

Yknot

Give me a chance. I think calling me superficial is a little unfair.

mtsgard

Big Tex

Richer men are more attractive than poor men

Well ... yeah.

Guys are not attractive anyway.

Now women on the other hand . . . . . . . . .

beksbks

Ok, I am predicting the Apocalypse. I agree with BA again, within hours.

Brother Apostate

Ok, I am predicting the Apocalypse. I agree with BA again, within hours.

BA- I'm the ~~pied piper~~ satyr?? Who knew?? PS- De gustibus non est disputandum.

LDH

Trade offs with everything. Attractive for what? Attractive for a night of hot sex? Sure, physical attraction is not determined by financial status. or Attractive for marriage?

I have NEVER believed in supporting a man. I have a algebraic equation to determine who I should be with. My point is, why not be selective? This is the most important contract you'll ever enter into in your whole life, if you're doing it right!

Why wouldn't I want to be with a man who is a good provider? I hold up my end of the bargain, he can uphold his.

So, while I wasn't out 'gold digging' I did have standards for the men I dated. And two of those were, he must have his real teeth, and he must be a good provider. Men also have standards, why shouldn't women?

Richer men are more attractive than poor men.

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