Yoyo, After a brief hope that you were a regular person, you turn out to truly be a jerk. Sheesh.
Tweetie, As I tried to say a while back about the UN thing, its a periphoral issue. I knew the WTS would simply poo poo it and the matter is actually too complicated for most witnesses to put together to formulate a conclusion that the situation was bad.
Even if they did, the men are imperfect thing protects the governing body from criticism from the faithful.
Because of the shunning issue, few of us get to have their cake and eat it too. If I could bite my tongue and live a life of lies, all my family and friends would still accept me, even though I would despise myself.
Coming out for what you really think and who you really are is a difficult decision with numerous complications. Only you can determine which path carries the greater cost and/or the greater reward.
take care
Joel