I recently posted that my wife has had mental/depression problems since she hurt her back at work 12 months ago....and since after years of picking on the Witnesses by me, she finally lost her faith in them and became in-active....VICTORY I thought! Slowly her stress levels began to rise...she quit work and rehab....then the sleeplessness, wierd behavior..wild agression....bizzar stuff. We split for two months after much stress...she called me back home crying and I relent...she lost many Kilo's {pounds} in weight, and isn't doing well I want to help, I was heartbroken to see this. She wants to go to meetings saying she feels terrible for losing faith...{that was my doing}...she wants my company and I promise her to go "sometimes when I can." Now, some have accused me of having a "hero" complex or some other issues, or compromising....thats cold man!.......but what would you do? Your wife/husband looks weak and sickly....you see them hanging on the edge of a cliff mentally, do you take a bullet for them or stick to your guns? Yes I could refuse to go along and if she ends up in a mental hospital at least I could say I did not compromise! She or we are doing MUCH better now as I try to be supportive and help out. I ask you people...what wouldn't you do for a partner who was suffering so much, to help them step away from the edge? This will cost me emotionally....but seeing your wife crack after 12 years of marriage would make you do anything to reverse the situation.
I would expect the same from her if the situation was reversed. The hell with the Witnesses, but not my wife. I un-plugged her from "the Matrix" but she can't function without it, so I will have to let her live in the fantasy new world so she can function.