Tough spot you're in there Berean. I feel your pain all too well. My wife and I have been separated on and off over the course of the last year primarily because of the JW faith. I've told her that I'll go with her to and from the meetings, but I'm going to think whatever I want to think. This has led to tons of arguing and marital discord, let me tell you. It's rough, as we both do love each other, but big J is just stuck smack dab in between our continuance as a happy couple.