If he's someone else, the onus is on HIM to make it completely obvious he's there.
A bit presumptous. Who are you to make demands on Him? Who are you? He doesn't want to be with people who don't want to be with Him. The fact that you don't believe in Him is irrelevant in the end because you atheists and God-haters will be dragged kicking and screaming before Him in the end to account for your ways. You have no choice in the matter. And just to clarify one thing: Just because He allows bad things happen doesn't mean he "condones" it. He's not pardoning it, forgiving it or overlooking it. He'll deal with it all in due time. You're on notice.
Now, go ahead and flame me.