Will he call me?

by Newborn 74 Replies latest jw friends

  • Newborn
    Newborn

    I again find myself in that position that I'm hoping for a guy to text me or call me back...will he?

    What's wrong with me?? Am I just starving for love and affection. I don't consider myself to be desperate. I'm (usually) a happy 35 y old former JW single who's finally able to have fun, meet and date guys!

    We had a great time and a nice date but I left the ball in his court since he felt more insecure than I...(and I'm determined not to contact him before he does)

    Why do I get so attached to someone so fast and already now feel how hurt I will be if I don't hear from him again...??

    Jeezuz! Help!!

    Why is love so difficult?

  • creativhoney
    creativhoney

    hey Newborn. Im also 35. - and go with your instincts. Ive been dating, we should talk more and share experiences - I have become a total treat em mean type. - seems the men chase me, but I am always fobbing them off because Im just not interseted and holding out for something better...

    shouldnt be a game, but sometimes it is. - the ones who are interested will be in touch - x

    pm me we should add on facebook lol x

  • zombie dub
    zombie dub

    dress sluttier

  • carpediem
    carpediem

    Hi Newborn

    It is hard to say but I hope he does call you. I have been in that situation a couple of times and it is a horrible feeling, especially when you really like someone. There could be many reasons why he hasnt called yet. Why dont you give it a couple of days then call and tell him you had a lovely time with him. Nothing ventured nothing gained and all that. All the best with it.

  • creativhoney
    creativhoney

    i spent 18 months obsessing over a man who loved me less than I loved him. - biggest mistake in my life, - he cut me off and ingnored me for 5 and then got in touch, the power balance had shifted,

    it made me realise i dont want to be in a power struggle. - Ben is right where I want him now. he needs me more than I need him, - and Im glad I could get to that place because I am over the horrid tumultuous desperate relationship that it was.

  • Newborn
    Newborn

    Zombie, dress sluttier?? Not sure that's the right approach for a serious relationship

    Creativhoney! thanks sweetie, we should definately add each other on fb and share experiences

    Carpediem, thanks for your kind support...I've scared guys off before by texting them, I don't want to scare this one off as well

  • Newborn
    Newborn

    Creativ, I'll PM you

  • creativhoney
    creativhoney

    bah if they get scared they arent worth it anyway. you need a nice manly man not a pathetic issue laden one lol x

  • Newborn
    Newborn

    True!!

  • carpediem
    carpediem

    LOL Creativhoney!

    If you textl him in a few days just once and keep the text simple (so he knows you are just a normal girl following up and not a bunny boiler or anything), there shouldnt really be anything to scare him off.

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