by Newborn 74 Replies latest jw friends
why should women be labelled as bunny boilers?
if he didnt text me again, then that would be enough - I certainlty wouldnt make contact.
When men attempt bold gestures, generally it's considered romantic. When women do it, it's often considered desperate or psycho."
carrie bradshaw lol
Zombie, dress sluttier?? Not sure that's the right approach for a serious relationship
Yea man, best not to take any relationship advise from me, I got all my pulling tips from Young People Ask: Answers that Work.
Hey newborn baby, fancy coming over for a bowl of crisps and a KM sing song around the piano? Wear a modest dress, sexy pants and bring lots of [hot] chaperones!
The best thing is not to expect anything - then you won't get disappointed.
Yes - a hard way of looking at things.
Zombie, LOL!!
Dear Loubelle, your right and it's damn hard
Awww I went through that before... My advice is have lots of back up men to keep your attention... don't let them know about each other though. lol {sigh} ...the single days. Sometimes I miss them sometimes not...
My advice is have lots of back up men to keep your attention.
Damn straight.
Oh and Newborn
Why is love so difficult?
This isnt love. - lol. learn to be very nonchalant ;)
lol... right creativhoney... I prob say about 3 on the side, depending on how many you can keep up with. lol (these are the "just friends" that you flirt with and go out on dates with... nothing more)
This isnt love. - lol. learn to be very nonchalant
Yelp Seriously if he's interested he will let you know!! And don't be afraid to throw it out there... "Dude I'm not messing with anyone that's not into a serious relationship"... either way it goes he will try to play you or he will say "me too" and tell you about his serious relationships, and you win because he will still give you attention. Just have "a nonchalant attitude" or confidant attitude... they notice the difference.
What's more important:
Power games
Hide and seek
Honest communication
You pick!
In my experience, "honest communication" is always the best policy. Know what you want to say, call 'em up, and say it.
"Love" is not a power trip about who has the ball in their court, who has the upper hand, who is in charge - you can play those games if you want to, but just be honest and realize that's not love at all. That's some fantasy - and you get to say whether you have that in your life, or if you have something more...loving.
It's a normal part of human interaction to "want" and "need" and have "romance" - I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that. I am saying "love" is supposed to be bigger than all that.
yes and this goes for male or female. - needy people are a big no no. - never sit by your phone, never be too available. Im not saying you are, but make sure you keep some mystery and yourself about you.
I think the time you stop feeling you need to be with someone is the time that its good to meet someone.
