if I had a good time, I would text and say so.
if I didnt get a response that would be it.
I spoke to a guy online for a while, he phoned me, we were on for about 90 mins, - I never heard from him again, - I thought he was quite decent. the first person who was all about a conversation and not 'when shall we meet when shall we meet' -
I didnt read to much into it but he sounded quite serious, where I am flippant, giddy and laugh a lot.
Now, after the call he texted and said Ill speak to you again, and then I didnt hear anything, but all I thought was, well, Im certainly not going to text back someone who clearly isnt interested in pursuing anything - and thats how it should be - dont take offense by it.
Read 'Women who love too much' by Robyn Norwood. - you will see your thinking is back to front. I used to be like that. I used to think if a guy was nice to me it was flattering. now I realise a lot of them arent even worthy of the attention lol.
instead of wondering whats wrong with you, see yourself as a valuable asset, that you wouldnt just entrust into the hands of anyone.