The 3rd party terminology often used by the WTS is clearly evident here. When it is rewritten in the 1st party , the level of control becomes a lot clearer...
"Cooperate fully with us. You need to examine your response to the direction you receive from us. Over the years , for example, you have received pointed direction on dress and grooming , entertainment , and IMPROPER USE OF THE INTERNET . Do you carefully heed (our) good counsel so that you are spiritually protected ?
Some might reason that areas such as entertainment and dress and grooming are personal matters. For you , though, personal preferences SHOULD NOT be the sole determining factor when making decisions.
The spirit that now operates in the" sons of disobedience " is so widespread that it is like the air we breathe. That spirit can cause you to think that you do not need guidance from us . You need to guard against developing a spirit of independence (from us) . By word or action, MAY YOU NEVER CHALLENGE US , (as we are) the channel of communication that Jehovah is using today. On the contrary, you should cherish your privilege to cooperate with us. And should you not strive to be obedient and submissive to those taking the lead in your local congregations ?"