After a nervous breakdown, I stopped attending meetings in 2005.
I still live in the same place, have the same phone #, and work at the same job. After about two visits by the elders to "encourage" me, I have been pretty much left alone. My college daughter is still very much a zealous JW, in fact she was on the circuit assembly program 2 weeks ago.
Well, this rabid JW, who once caused a scandal by her most un-JW-like conduct, (I refer to her as a reformed strumped) is calling on the woman who lives across from me. This JW used to pass by with her nose in the air and refuse to speak, but yesterday she saw fit to tell me how well my daughter handled her assembly part. I listened politely, steeling myself for the inevitable question as to why I quit the meetings.
Sure enough, it wasn't long in coming. I told her I couldn't stomach the meetings because the "slave"has pushed Jesus of Nazareth aside and is occupying His place in the hearts and minds of JW's. Of course, she didn't like that! She began to bluster and stutter something about how the "slave" has opened up the Scriptures for our understanding.
I countered that apparently the "slave" needs something opened up for their understanding, since so many changes have been made! She began to squirm at that and muttered something about "new light." She also made the assertion that SATAN had apparently got a hold of my mind. I let that pass and continued to point out the inconsistencies in WT doctrine and the Bible.
She prepared to leave in a huff, asking if I'd talked to the brothers. I replied that I hadn't, but would tell the brothers the same things that I'd told her.
I'm getting ready for a call or a visit within the next week; I know old girl will not let her skirt tail hit her fanny until she gives the brothers an earful! I regret the day I got involved with this crazy cult!
LOL.
Sylvia