Well, I think a lot of the comments here blame God for the behavior of humans themselves or what those people THOUGHT God wanted, rather than what God actually wants.
If someone doesn't believe in God, why are they blaming him for anything at all? I don't get that, why worry about what the non-existent God is doing?
You also can't help what misled or misinformed people do either, regardless if it's religious misinformation or other sorts. I'm not person who believes God is spying on people or even listening to every word you say, or even every prayer. I love my kids but I don't need to listen to all their nonsense. LOL A lot of what people say and do is crap, really. I wouldn't be listening to it all if I were God. There has to be more interesting things to do than be Big Monitor in the Sky all eternity for a piss ant species like us.
It's kind of human arrogance to compare God to what humans do. Humans tend to think, If I were God, I wouldnt do that! But, if you were God, not only would you be operating on a different plane of thought and existence and be pretty unfathomable to humans on this one in a lot of ways.
If you're blaming God for all the bad stuff you see people doing, but none of the good stuff, well, that's hardly fair or even very rational, is it? Can't have it both ways, if you think God is screwing up your life, you have to give him cred for the good stuff too, if you think he's so personally doing everything for you and to you in life.
Maybe it's just you all along, huh?