Quality Men who Don't Smoke and Don't Get Drunk...

by White Dove 61 Replies latest social relationships

  • dgp
    dgp

    Well, thank you Yknot .

    My feet are powerful sometimes.

    You sound like a great woman, and I don't think your feet are powerful.

  • Scott77
    Scott77

    Some of the nastiest people I know, and are related to, are non-smokers, non-drinkers, and non-drug users. I would never use any of those criteria to decide who were going to be my friends. A person can be all of those and still be a valuable member of society, a good partner, a good friend and a good parent. A Jehovah's Witness in good standing is none of the above and that, in no way, qualifies them as good parents, friends or partners without some serious compromises on the part of the people associating with them. For me, everyone gets a pass card, regardless of what I may consider to be their personal foibles, until their actions prove that my lenience has been in error.

    Black Sheep

    Thank you , thank you alot for saying that. You have drove the point home. Hi WD, this is a reality check for you.

  • Scott77
    Scott77

    Wear something that makes you feel sexy (hint of perfume, racy undergarments, a piece of jewelry or a ribbon in you hair)

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    Asilentone.....I know you mean well ......however when talking to girls whom you are not seeking romantically but still wanna be 'helpful'.......

    Remember gentlemenly TACT is greatly appreciated. You don't tell a gal she look awful in lemonade yellow you politely suggest a blue dress instead

    yknot

    yknot

    You are so sweet and great. I did not know you are great at saying that in such a way. Thank you alot

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    Reality check: Wheezing and coughing and clearing my throat and using an inhaler are not polite things to do on a date. It's disturbing and gross. Going home with nice clothes that reek, must wash those clothes before wearing them again to get the smell out. Must shower after the date to wash the stench from my hair and body but not because there was any "action." I come from generations of non-smokers and don't want to invite one into my family. Casual friends can smoke because I can walk a bit away from it, but not potential suiters that I might be close to in the future.

    I enjoy fresh air and a sober beau on a date. I don't think that is too much to ask for. I also never said no alcohol. I said no drunkenness.

  • transhuman68
    transhuman68

    They are out there.They are also gay...

  • asilentone
    asilentone

    WD, you can find them in your local GYM!!! or you can post an ad at www.craigslist. org that you want non smoker guy, etc.... Good Luck!

  • Broken Promises
    Broken Promises

    Umm, no, not Craiglist. WD has higher standards than that.

  • Broken Promises
    Broken Promises

    And White Dove…. I hear ya.

    I don’t think smokers realise just how pervasive the smell of cigarette smoke is.

    Or that it’s not an attractive smell to non-smokers.

    It’s funny, but I’ve been chatting to a guy who’s been saying the same thing about women. He finds it hard to find women who aren’t smokers or into drugs. Or that have kids.

  • undercover
    undercover
    ...I quit years ago but tell me that's not cool.

    Why, yes...that's very cool

    (not that I'm biased or anything)

  • yknot
    yknot

    Gym (gym-hopping too) = Good

    Hiking Clubs = Good

    Craigslist= Dangerous, bad, bad, bad..

    Also many larger cities have various groups that host 'mixers' to help singles mingle.

    I understand there are also dating websites for hearing-impaired singles.

    I believe Flip met his princess on E-Harmony.
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    Thank you Scott77..... btw there is no such word as 'alot', they are each seperate words. 'Alot' was one of my mom's and many of my teachers pet peeve.

    Asilentone: I really worry about what kind of girls you meet on Craigs, sincerely little-sister worried---I mean would you really consider a long-term serious, meet the parents relationship with one of those girls? I just can't see 'nice' girls being so forward with men whom they aren't already familiar.... BTW how did things work out with the Farmer's Market girl?-- she sounded 'nice'!

    Transhuman68: Oh,behave--- you saucy Aussie (tee-hee-hee)

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