I'm with you Darth. My family is being affected SO much by this religion. If I lost my wife and kids, and an elder showed up at my door, I don't know what I'd do.
But I'm trying to remember the victimization goes up to the top. These guys think they are doing the right thing and are "keeping the congregation clean". My anger, now, is directed to the top. The policy writers. The service departement heads that create the rules. The GB and their keeping the rank and file in line!
Sadly, they are untouchable. To us at least. So I've gotta get rid of that anger too. It's not healthy. I know you're not a Christian, Darth, but loving your enemy and praying for those persecuting you is a concept that Jesus taught. And it's the only way to get past some of these anger issues.
I ain't preaching. I'm still working on it myself.