He's a guy and upon request, he gave me his e-mail address so he could give me a yes or a no to my invitation to join us tonight for dinner.
After I asked him if he'd like to join us, he snickered and said I don't know. Give me a couple of hours to think about it.
I asked him four hours later if he had decided, yet, but he hadn't even thought about it yet.
I said that it's not a test question, no right or wrong answer.
He asked where and I said it's a nice place uptown.
He said that he needed to think about it because of the dress up thing.
I said he didn't need to dress up, that just slacks and a nice shirt would do.
That was two days ago, and I haven't heard back from him, yet, although I did e-mail him so he could let me know.
I'm the wheels for the evening, so I needed to know so I could pick him up, or not.
Does no answer (seems like avoidance) mean no, or is there some other excuse that might (wanna say rescue his ass but won't say it) be plausible?
How do guys think when confronted with such an invitation and then himm and haw over answering?
Women are thinking about having to endure the person, but what about men?