Iron head, in principle i agree. But i also know everyone progresses at their own pace, and that pace cant be forced. Better to encourage misery and empower than to beat him down. The WT has done enough beating down for anyones lifetime.
@wasblind, you know i agree about kiddies... Its why im involved still, but not everyone agrees nor do they have to. Thats the whole poimt of choosing our own path. What 144 choose is not what i have to live, and vise versa... I have had plenty of days where i was tempted to give the whole org the middle finger and damn the consequences to me from wife and kids... But ultimatly i havent made that choice. I live with it cause its the consequences i am prepared to deal with ATM... 144 is prepared for a different set of consequences. But both of us have made informed desions based on our preferances. Misery seems to be stuck in habit and routine.
Free your mind misery. When you wake up tommarow, what will you want to look back on? A day in service, or something else..? Create that new reality. It is ypurs and yours alone.