Please form a judicial committee... (page 2)

I've not really gotten involved in this situation but have read about it. I have to say that now it seems that you are trying to guilt us into accepting you and forgiving you. I would say that most people here have had enough guilt living in the org to last a lifetime (I have thats for sure!) and this is not the way to make friends if that is what you want.

Dont try to lay a guilt trip on us or accuse us of acting like jw's. That is just wrong. Just be yourself (for once), stop all the lying (from now on) and let the people here decide if they want to be friends with you or not.

also you said to openminded

"openminded: Is it o.k. to lie to try to cover your tracks so that you won't hurt your family?"

my answer is NO its not ok if it hurts the people here in the process. i think everyone makes mistakes in life and you made a big one when you came here and started making up lies. but all mistakes are forgivable depending on the persons behavior afterwards. trying to make excuses and justify what you did is NOT the way to go.

just my 2cents.

flower

AjaxMan

SexyTeen,
I admit that I did judge you harshly as it is really out of anger at being duped, deceived and believing that you and YoYoMaMa are the same person.

If someone deceives you, I don't think you'll be happy. So for one second put yourself in our shoes and picture yourself at being deceived or cheated.

You posted a question in this thread to openminded about lying to cover your tracks so your family won't be hurt. Well, look where lying got you.

Well, all I can say to you what to do next is that what Billygoat (Andi) said is true. So, there's no point in me telling you what to do as Andi pretty much said it for me.

Ajax

BritBoy

*cough*bollocks*cough*
*cough*bullshit*cough*
*cough*crockofshit*cough*

*YAWN*

They wouldn't have made the cane if you weren't meant to break the rules!

Abaddon

SexyTeen; I've now found the 'Apology and clarification' post you made. I remain sceptical, but to me that's like breathing, so don't take it personally.

Your Uncle is a coward who runs away from arguements when he finds he can't answer them. Did it to me at least three times. I'm sure he's a lovely bloke in person, blah, blah, but as you'll recall from a reply I made to you about why people are angry with Witnesses (I said each Witness is two people, the cultist and the individual; the individual might be lovely, but the cultist is a cultist who will react when you push their buttons and possibly do hurtful things). I got to see his cultist face, and yeah, it's hurtful; but the only person he's really hurting (or kidding) is himself.

The fact that you are staying and pleading your case makes me think you are not your Uncle. I don't think he has the guts to do that.

I don't think, on reflection, that your Uncle would have chosen the handle you chose, as it's too daring. If he was scamming and pretending to be you (in which case, you don't exist), he'd have gone for something more generic. My idea that he was using a fake identity as a stalking horse to make 'apostates' look bad is plausable, but he'd of chosen a different name to do it. Anyone who wasn't a teenager would have chosen a 'better' name in fact; most people using handles like SexyTeen are sad single men in their fourties... how old's your Uncle ?(joke)

Having compared a few posts, I also don't think your writing styles are close enough to call the same, and have been out (a while back, I'm too old to do it now without being a perv now!) with a seventeen year-old who would pass for 25 in maturity, so don't consider your maturity to be out of character. And I am sure you have access to more than one computer, even if you are now 'in trouble'.

Basically, I'm going to assume you are telling the truth. If I am wrong, at least I am wrong out of good motives.

You're gonna have to put up with people not believing you for a while. You lied. xJW's have a VERY DIM VIEW about being lied to, or having their trust trampled on. We've had enough of it. You ask if it's okay to lie to avoid hurting your family. Yes and no. Most of us have probably done it, but it often ends up blowing up in your face.

Now, you didn't exactly mean this to blow up in your face, but if I could swap the ten years extra I spent in the Borg (I left at 27) for a few weeks of re-establishing my genuine nature on a Discussion Board, I think I would.

Of course, you haven't left the JW's yet. You might be forced to conform ("If you're living in my house you'll go to the meetings"), or actually want to. You might decide 'we' are wrong and that 'they' are right.

But, although it's tough, maybe the shit you're going through is beneficial (for all things, haha), as it allows you to see the grimy underside of the Borg that might of escaped your notice up until now.

I hope you keep coming here. If you are going to want to learn more, you'll need to. Just be yourself and win people over that way, and if you get hassled, just post back that you've said your sorrys, and that you're sorry if that's not good enough, as all you can be is sorry, as your time machine is broken and you can't go back and do it better. Remember, you lied to people who react badly to being lied to. It's not so much you are bad, as they don't like it.

Oh, and if you are YoYo, I'll hunt you down and use your skull as a drinking cup (that's a joke).

Oh, if your Dad actually physically slapped you, he is SO out of line. Don't stand for it. Hitting you doesn't make him right - let him know that. It's FACTS that make one right (or wrong).

People living in glass paradigms shouldn't throw stones...

SexyTeen

fodeja: Actually, I think I would enjoy that. lol...

openminded: I asked you that question not because lieing could protect me, but it would protect my mom and dad. Talking with the elders did not hurt me, I was only a non baptized publisher. But my dad is pursuing priviledges in the congregation and I didn't want to hurt his chances.

Billygoat: You are so right. Thanks.

flower: My point was that if I accuse JWs of something and then I do the same thing, what does that make me?

AjaxMan: You're alright and I understand your feelings. We're cool.

BritBoy: Stop smoking and maybe that cough will go away. lol...

SexyTeen

Abaddon: Actually my uncle is not a coward, but a very sincere and sweet man. He has helped me through many things and I know I can trust him with anything. He studies a lot and is very knowledgable. I don't know what arguements he ran away with, but that does not make him a coward. He is my family and I love him dearly.

I do appreciate your post.

Thanks.

25ashitaka25

Sexyteen-

your

(((((((kick in the ass))))))))

comment mirrors yoyo's

'Why don't you close your legs?'

comment from an earlier post that i remember. When I tried to retrieve the earlier threads, I got nothing.

At least we can be sure you and the YOYO man are family.

ashi

SexyTeen

Ashitaka: Call it pms, hehe.

AlanF

You're a lying, cowardly son of a bitch, YoYo. You've had a number of opportunities to clear the air. I've even offered you my phone number several times, including through private email. As I told you, the fact that you won't reveal yourself in private proves that you're here only to stir up trouble.

"Sexy Teen" my ass!

AlanF

Please form a judicial committee...

SixofNine

flower

AjaxMan

BritBoy

Abaddon

SexyTeen

SexyTeen

25ashitaka25

SexyTeen

AlanF

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