Hi ST:
Seeing that most of those on this forum love to judge others ...
I am not sure that "most" love to judge. Some might. Some di it naturally without thinking. Some seem like they are judging, but it is their way of being sarcastic, humorous, or something.
... (although the complaint is that JWs do the same thing),
I don't believe that JWs "love" to judge. As a group, under the controls of the religion, they are molded and trained to view non-JWs in a closed and narrow way ... and their reactions come across as judgmental. The real problem with JWs judging is not so much from the members, but from the system they suscribe to ... and the Judicial processes they employ. If this were lifted from them, likely most JWs would begin to function as normal people.
I am willing to go through a judicial committee.
Why? Isn't the JW system enough? Why would you want more? There is no JC here anyway ... well ... except the Triune Club of ... mmmm ... I had better not say, or I might be back in the Hot Seat with them. But their initials are Julie, Tina, and Amnesian - The Awesome Judges of Your State of Mind.
If you see fit not to forgive, ...
Forgive? For what? What did you do wrong? Is there something that you feel sorry about?
... please disfellowship me and shun me.
You won't get that here. You might run into some who will not respond to you or you not respond to them for your own reasons ... but so what? That is life.
If you are serious about feeling bashed here on JWD, then take a day or two off. Then come back and read again those posts that you feel really got to you, and figure out if it is worth your time to address the issues, or move on.
If you followed the saga between me and the Triune Club, I did the same thing ... I took ten days away. Came back and reviewed everything. I made one detailed response to Amnesian because I felt that she at least tried to make some argements. I made several responses to Julie after I returned, but they did not go where I had hoped they would, so I stopped. With Tina, I haven't invested anymore time because I am not sure yet what I should or could do. As for the rest of the negative comments in the saga ... and there were many, I let them ride, and discovered that it was not necessary.
I have no idea if my suggestions will work for you, or even if they are appropriate to your situation. Judging from the flak you received on some posts, I think it might be worth a try to take some time away, and then come back with a fresh start. You may discover that only a few posts are woirth your time to deal with.
Honestly, I didn't know how to take your comments to me on my Part Series about Exit. So I gave it a shot. You might also consider, if you have not already done so, that written communication is virtually single dimension, devoid of 80% or so of all the other body language, tone of voice and mannerisms. So what may come across as really mean might have been meant differently by the author of the comments.
Everyone now and then falls into the trap of misunderstanding the intent of the author as well as misunderstanding the context. Don't feel alone on that one.
I was thinking of posting a short test on communication, and if I do, let me know what you think. Hope some of my thoughts here are helpful.