Sigh (again). May you all have peace. Since my name has come up... again:
First, please don't leave, dear Aussie (peace to you!); there really is no benefit in it, other than if that truly is your wish and choice, and so there's a benefit to YOU. Second, to you and everyone else who does so, you really shouldn't hurry in your spirit to take offense because, truly, the taking of offense IS what lies with the stupid ones. I say that because to take (irrevocable) offense at what is posted on an Internet board is... well, stupid. I mean no offense, but it is. Because you don't HAVE to participate on such a board OR read all of the posts: there is, if nothing else, still the freedom of CHOICE.
Look, folks: supposedly we ALL come from (or have some connection to) an organization that not only stifled but punished more than just our freedom of speech: our freedom of thought and our freedom of FAITH were directly affected, as well. And THAT is our commonality, if nothing else. To come from that, however, and then try to direct, control, dictate, decry, denounce, ridicule, or what other word suffices, another's freedom of speech, thought, and/or FAITH... is the epitome of hypocrisy: you really are NO different than they, not at all. You've only traded one "suitcase" to carry your baggage in for another.
Do you have to AGREE with the other's speech, thoughts, or faith? Of course not. But if one's desire is to inflame by what they say (which IS often the case here... and certainly publicly and openly denouncing anyone and pretty muchanything tends to invite that), then one shouldn't be surprised... or take issue... when such inflammation occurs and they are called on it or "reprimanded" for it. Someone else got offended before YOU did... and took action.
Or perhaps the desire isn't to inflame, per se, but one realizes that the possibility exists (as I often must); again, one shouldn't be surprised (as I am not) when inflammation occurs.
I admit I was a bit "hurt" at dear Aussie's post because he and I have rarely had an interchange, so my words offending HIM was a surprise. And yes, I saw myself in his rant. But he was/is entitled to his opinion. That others chose to make it literally personal was quite telling for me. And I responded to that... because I no longer hold enough respect for such individual(s) to have kept my "tongue" and let it slide. It was personal... and puerile... and needed to be addressed. However, apparently others were offended and so a moderator was asked to step in. I have never requested the assistance of a moderator in that fashion... and never will. I know the "potential consequences" of what I post; I counted the cost before I ever came here.
I would, however, as humbly as I can muster, like to ask... AGAIN... that EVERYONE refrain from referring to me personally, if you can find it in your heart to do so. As you all may know, I really am trying to recover from a huge physical ordeal and threads like this aren't helping. Today, for instance, the physical reaction I experienced to this (and the related) thread(s) has caused my organs GREAT stress... which I just can't handle, right now. If not... then I am really going to have to leave the board, perhaps for good... for my own physical well-being. I realize that there are some who have been hoping and wishing (even praying, perhaps) for that for some time... and it could be that their wish is on the brink of coming true. Of course, they will most likely try to attribute it to "Yay, we ran her off - she can't support her faith!" but nothing would be further from the truth. The TRUTH would be that I can no longer handle the physical pain reading some of what is written about me causes - it really is just too much, right now.
So, I am asking... please. If you have an issue with me, take it to a PM. To me or a moderator, whatever. If to me, I have no problem responding, if I think your thoughts warrant it. But I cannot take being the cause of such... melarkey... on this board, right now. I can't afford the physical setback. My faith... and my way of expressing it... is MY faith and MY way of expression. I am sorry, but it won't change. If that truth prompts you to respond with personal attacks... then I most probably will leave at some point... rather than attack you back. THAT is just not "in" me, sorry.
Again, I bid you ALL peace!
A slave of Christ,
SA