How do people of different political parties become good friends? Because they throw aside the fundamental differences and what's left might still be compatible; even enough for a real friendship to flourish.
In this type of a scenario, "acceptance" has to be a two-way street in order for there to be friendship, right? Maybe I am not as evolved or patient as you, but my dealings with JW's since I left the org makes me think you might be a bit naive, though admirably idealistic. And I do admire the love and compassion that you exmplify. Maybe it is your attitude that will make all the difference one day in helping them to leave the organization.