Thanks all, I have enjoyed reading every one of your replies! Its so nice to be in a place where everyone can share differing viewpoints! I should just clarify though, this post was not meant to question whether God exists or not. It was meant to question the JW belief that God is not responsible for bad things to happen even though he allows them to happen.
As to the question of whether or not I believe God exists ... I am sorry to have to quote from "Angels and Demons" by Dan Brown. One of the main charactars asks another whether he believes in God. Not, what man says about God. There is a difference. When you lie out under the stars, do you sense the divine? Do you feel in your gut that you are staring up at the work of Gods hand? Personally, I have to answer yes.