I would suggest you read " Is God a moral monster?" because it seems some of the issues you have with God are because of what we have read and interpreted in the bible.
I have no issue with God whatsoever. I simply see that he is a human creation, and as such, acts exactly as anyone can predict. As a human creation, I expect him to be contradictory. I expect him to show love when it suits him and anger and violence when it does not. I expect him to be jealous and convinced he is right. I expect him to justify bloody deeds by claiming a greater good. This is exactly as humans are, and so their gods.
However, if there was an all powerful god, I would expect his book to be consistent and not dependent on the norms of the day. I would expect his word to transcend cultue and time. I would expect his word to be scientifically accurate, focused, and reliable. I would not expect him to leave it up to my subjective conscience, molded by contemporary values and understandings, to accept certain passages and explain away the rest. In this regard, the bible fails to stand up along with the god that was behind the writing. There is nothing special about the bible nor the god it created. It is very human-all of it-with nothing extraordinary. Some of it's truths are universal, so all can gain some insight. Some of it's directives are petty and violent and self-serving. That's exactly how a human would create and then write about a god.
Now if you want to discuss evolution start a new thread please.
I already started an evolutionary thread, just for Bioflex.