by alamb 45 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
Do you forgive him? Given the circumstances I might suggest ignoring the bastard ... or perhaps ... "thanks for nothing, I have moved on, you should too"
or here is a poem you might adapt http://www.child-abuse-effects.com/a-child-abuse-poem-daddys-little-girl.html
sorry for taking the negative road on this one, I can't have a positive thought on it
My mom and dad converted when I was 3. He molested me for 6 years.. ..alamb
A FATHER IS SOMEONE WHO'S THERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED HIM
A FATHER NEVER LETS YOU DOWN
A FATHER IS SOMEONE THERE TO HUG YOU WHEN SOMETHING GOES WRONG
A FATHER IS THERE TO DRY UP THE TEARS
A FATHER IS THERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO
A FATHER ISN'T SOMEONE WHO LEAVES YOU FOR HIS CHANCE AT EVERLASTING LIFE PROMISED BY A CULT
A FATHER ISN'T SOMEONE WHO DENIES HIS OWN CHILD
A FATHER ISN'T SOMEONE WHO COWERS TO BE KNOWN AS YOUR FATHER FOR FEAR OF MEN IN A COMMITTEE
A FATHER ISN'T A HYPOCRITE
A FATHER ISN'T WHAT I SEE IN YOU"
I TRIED.....alamb
Your Breaking my Heart.....Thats just Effin Horrible..
Get away from this person..
He abused you..He`s still abusing you..
Don`t respond..
He is "STILL" looking for Control..
Your not Little Anymore..You can Fight Back..
Step 1)..Get him Out of Your Life..
.......................;-)...OUTLAW
Under the circumstances, I go with Outlaw on this. he should be on bloody knees BEGGING you for forgiveness not dishing out this syrupy guilt trip.
To Quote Dr Suess: "They never will learn, no you can't teach a Sneech!" The story of the Sneetches describes the unfounded Superior attitude some have over others. Substitute J-Dubs for Sneeches and you'll LOL. Toxic is toxic. Live well without him.
(((((((((ALamb)))))))))) I forgot- this is for you.
My "pleasing you" came from an incestuous touch
As a child I endured it I loved you so much
Thank you.
Life has gone on. I still hold hope that they will be free but not at a cost to my peace and sanity. I have resolved myself to the fact that they are soulless. But I get irked when they start with the slinging and arrogance.
What a hollow existence. So thankful we all got out. Great ideas. Thanks.
(((((((((((my dear friends on this board))))))))))))))))) Family of circumstance, eh?
I prayed God protect me and help me get through
another night dreading I'd be touched by you
Yearning to feel precious in her daddy's eyes
Your words of caring turned out to be lies
Hoping for happiness and praying it will last
I'm forever marred, haunted by the past
Good stuff Quandry. Thanks! How about the hypocrisy of seeing him give a Sunday talk as an elder? disgusting. And I pioneered through it as a teen and went on to be a fine elder's wife.
Not quite where I'm going yet, but SO not where I was.
Does he really think he can pretend the past didn't happen? How does he say he "gave his all?" I am incredulous!
