How do I respond to this? from my father

by alamb 45 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

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  Mary

  He molested me for 6 years. Admits it.

  Holy Christ! And he has the balls to write you that shit??!! What an asshole of the first order. Well, here's a little something you should write back to him and send a copy to every member of his congregation:
  
  
  A FATHER

  Fathers should be precious, in so many ways,
  From the day of our birth, till the end of our days.

  You look up to them as you think they know best;
  But you never expect, that you they'd molest.

  You hide your shame with a bright fake smile;
  Wondering how they could possibly rape their own child.

  They go to the Meetings, pretending they're good;
  You'd like to tell someone---oh if only you could.

  You pray for release, from the horrors at night;
  And hope you'll make it through to next morning's light.

  Please God! Protect me, and help me get through,
  Because fathers like mine, are neither seldom or few.

  -----------------------------------------

  YOU DIDN'T TRY HARD ENOUGH.
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  Found Sheep

  Oh my.... only had 1/2 the story when I responded

  He thinks if you are a JW then he did it. He was a good dad. My dad played that card so many times. He got DF'ed and then had to play the " I raised you" card.

  you owe him nothing and it is all about YOU and how YOU feel and want to deal with it!!!! Anyway you do is right, but please make it a way that helps YOU!!!!

  best peace and love to you

  FS
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  finally awake

  Wow. I think you should send him a douchebag of the year award.
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  LV101

  Have you talked to a lawyer yet. Please do so and go after them for whatever you can.

  Best to you,

  LV101
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  nugget

  A father always gives his love

  He is the strength that shapes the child

  The shield protecting from above

  The heart of strength the spirit mild.

  You never gave this love to me

  A man of appetites that all ran free

  You stand amid the pain you made

  to pass on guilt where you betrayed.

  You are a weak and stupid man

  a fool to think that now you can

  pretend that you were once so fine

  but all I hear is how you whine.

  You gave me nothing but years of pain

  by leaving you I did but gain

  and if a god looks at my face

  he sees pain I can't erase

  I've had to build my life anew

  the reason Daddy dear is you.

  There is no paradise, no life

  you caused too much pain and strife.

  If you must reap what you sow

  there is no place for you to go.

  You are not worthy of my grief

  nor can you force my old belief.

  Despite your poison this is true

  say only this I forgive you.
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  TheSilence

  Such pretty words that contain naught but lies

  The ‘precious’ you claim your own action defies

  You see, Daddy dearest, you did teach me true

  You taught me that trust I should not place in you

  You tried your best? Is that truly your claim?

  Then where, Daddy dearest, should we place the blame?

  Shall we place it on me, just an innocent child

  Who could not understand why her father defiled

  Her innocence lost by her own father’s hand

  While he claimed to serve God, his own guilt he banned

  You gave it your all? Daddy, don’t make me laugh

  If I add up your effort it does not equal half

  And now you send poems to make me feel guilt?

  You see disbelief? That’s what you yourself built.

  You see I can’t buy into the God that you sell

  Whose spirit did choose one who put me through hell

  If such is the nature of God, then it’s true

  I will not serve him; I leave him to you

  You tried?

  Fuck off.