Lets stay away from words like "perfect" and "love" for now.
That's fine. I get the feeling that if we don't, your argument is indefensible.
A creator creates, for good or for evil. A father allows his son to scrape his knee.
There was no evil until Satan rebelled, correct? So God had not intended for evil to exist in his universe, and did not purposefully create it, although he allowed for the possibility. If you take Genesis literally.
Furthermore, what kind of father watches his son fall and does not run to help him? If I knew my son was in danger, I would save him from experiencing it. Especially when we're talking about something as debilatating as DEATH.
Again, you seem to have very specific definitions as to what constitutes a loving and caring creator.
And you don't? I'm sure you do. Besides, how would you define your creator? Is he neither loving or caring? You tell me.
Finally, you cannot equate a man made invention with the formation of our universe by a GOD. Or do you really want to bring God down to the human level? If so, then what use is it to call him a God anyway?