For any single lurkers, think twice before getting married to a jw mate without at least sleeping with them. It's not fun being married to a roommate and kids just make it so much more difficult to leave or at least postpone the exit.
Zeb, listen to elderelite and others, plan an exit and plan for a life with less frustration. Sometimes it may take time but a hope of a better life is better than no hope at all. Damaged mates sometimes are beyond repair, and will not change even if they leave wts, I know, I got one. Won't swear, don't want to go past 2 positions and sex is simply awkward, hell can't even talk on the topic.
Marrying a fully indoctrinated jw is one of the worst mistakes one can make.