I've seen the effects on a family locally in a recent disfellowshipping here.
I've observed how the local JW community shun the man, how the family has fractured, and how the JW sisters, especially and notably the one conducting my own study, reinforced the diktat to shun, causing other collateral damage along the way.
I've no idea how I am officially seen at the minute, but this last fortnight all the phone calls and text messages and visits have stopped, though no-one seems to be actively shunning me on chance encounter though there haven't been that many.
Rory, your few words here make your honesty and courage in refusing to quell your own thoughts and misgivings about the nonsenses within WT teaching all the more impressive.