by doinmypart 473 Replies latest jw friends
I don't want anyting to happen MrsJones. Shelby was despicably nasty and I called her out on it, argument over. I don't hold grudges if she plays nice tomorrow we will have some interesting discussions, if she continues to behave like a nasty, patronising, arrogant person I will continue to object.
I am glad you like Shelby in real life, perhaps I would too. On here she is objectionable and and tonight she sunk to a new low.
Boy, has this thread ever derailed.
No of course she didn't mean it....any more than she means to point out others alcoholism.
I did mean it, Still (and I've added you to the list). I didn't want to do the other, however... and if I wasn't harassed and pushed wouldn't have. If I was that out of line, though, believe me, not only would the moderators have stepped in (and they did, later, but not as to me), but most of the Board would have cried "Foul!" That didn't occur, though, and you might try to consider why that was/is. Indeed, if you deigned to take a few minutes to find out what occurred you might actually change your feelings about the matter. Might. Might not. Irrelevant, because there is a truce and the hatchet buried. That you and a few others keep trying to dig it up at every turn might be telling, though. Take care - I've been hear a LONG time and I've seen many, many... many... instances folks who've been around just a tad THINK they know what's going on, what transpired, got real vocal about it... then found out what had actually transpired... where unable to handle their own chagrin and embarassment at taking sides, particuarly the wrong side... and so then are gone, never to be seen or heard from again.
Dear Josie/OUTLAW... peace to you, both! You know me, so you know where I'm coming from and where I come from. And you know I would never do what C thinks I did. I am not only not that harsh/uncaring, but not that immature. You both know that I can respond to the "boyz" without having to fight "dirty"... and that would have been very dirty. Very low. Yes, they tend to take me "places"... but nowhere that low. So, thank YOU... for your kindness and efforts to share the truth about me with these folks.
Okay, now, where was I...
Peace... to all those here who can receive it!
A slave of Christ,
SA
Perhaps, Shelby, it is not peace that we reject, but plastic, fake, hypocritical wishes of peace from a person who gives them in the midst of still firing the gun.
Add me to your list. I don't want synthetic, cheap, pearls of peace. I like genuine pearls, thank you. I am not your dear one. You may think you are clever, claiming our rejection of your fake peace wish is a rejection of peace, and then comparing it to a cancer. And whether you knew about Cofty's thread or not, it's an incredibly hostile analogy.
How presumptuous of you to claim that Cofty is dealing with 'anger' and you are helping him. You didn't know about his cancer, how the f**k do you know about his anger? Too bad your lord didn't cue you in. I have seen how you take a persons personal weakness, and with the grace of a pig in mud, used it against that person to score points. You did it to me. You've done it to others. If it wasn't already proven that you are willing to do this, perhaps we could accept that you did not know. But you will use anything to make your point. You have no boundaries.
You insist on rolling crap in sugar and trying to feed it to us as candy. All the 'peace to you's' in the world don't disguise the pure nastiness behind your posts. And don't you dare offer pity to Cofty. He is not a man to be pitied. He is a man that set himself free of superstition and bullshit. I pity you. I pity you for talking to dragons and never having true peace---so you manufacture a version of peace that has nothing to do with reality.
My sympathy is with you.
NC
You can protest you didn't mean to do what you did but you definitely accused me of being weak and needy and using my illness in a debate to garner pity and sympathy. If you will do that you will sink to anything.
I also witnessed the whole episode about alchoholism. You were a disgrace in that whole debacle Shelby. You look for buttons to press to distract attention from your own dragon worshipping madness. You are very accomplished at it.
I am not in any camp. Also, just wanted to point out that IIRC, NC is female, and therefore not part of "boyz," whoever "boyz" is supposed to refer to.
Indeed, if you deigned to take a few minutes to find out what occurred you might actually change your feelings about the matter.
Nasty is nasty....the history is irrelevant.
Take care - I've been hear a LONG time and I've seen many, many... many... instances folks who've been around just a tad THINK they know what's going on, what transpired, got real vocal about it... then found out what had actually transpired... where unable to handle their own chagrin and embarassment at taking sides, particuarly the wrong side... and so then are gone, never to be seen or heard from again.
I think you confuse people leaving with people being embarassed...people leave for all sorts of reasons. I would guess embarassment would be the least of them.
The fact that you have been here a long time only shows that Simon has a lot of tolerance...it is not something for you to be proud of...it is something for Simon to be proud of. I give credit where credit is due.
She wouldn`t take a Cheap shot at your illness..
That sure as hell was a cheap shot. I wasn't born yesterday. That was a passive aggressive cheap shot.
I tend to always give people the benefit of the doubt but in this instance I do not have the slightest shadow of doubt it was deliberate. I believe her response was already planned before she posted it.
Online debate is a game I accept that. We push each other's buttons. I rarely post in a heated debate without a wry smile on my face, sometimes I probably go too far but this was beyond the pale. Shelby has no limits.
" Boy, has this thread ever derailed. "
Yup
But I wanna know, did someone accuse Shelby of lying about how her mother died?
