I was surprised to find I don't feel much for my parents even though I love and respect them. I have no desire to get them out of the borg at this stage in their lives.
That's strange... I'm only mentally out and obviously am not being shunned, but I feel similar about my JW parent. I feel love, and I worry about this person a lot, and even feel quite guilty about not being a "good enough" daughter. Yet I sometimes just don't feel much. I used to want to help my parent "get out" but now I just...don't.