i wasnt saying he is perfect. no one is. that wasnt the point.
i dont blame him for not wanting to be involved in these kind of forums. there is more arguing and bickering and hatred here among everyone than there is healing. for a jw to come here and see him posting on a board that had the crap going on like was going on here last week would only force them in to a state of disbelief. i know cause similar crap was going on when i first started posting here and i had a very hard time convincing myself that there was still truth here under the bullshit. and every time one of these wars broke out i flopped back and forth thinking this cant be the truth. being df'd and not a strong witness to begin with i was able do deal with it. i would bet that if a diehard witness that just happened by here with the normal amout of unspoken doubts about their religion, they would put the blinders on faster than you could blink and run the other way.
ray is doing the right thing by being seperate from all the anti jw causes and staying true to himself. if he is not angry with the society then who are we to say he should feel differently? you arent in his mind or heart.
personally i'm not angry either most of the time and i dont get involved with the God bashing or JW hating. some people just want their life back so they can move on and let it all be behind them. some need revenge and need to be angry. no one is wrong and no one should be called a betrayer because they dont feel the same as someone else.
leave the man alone and let him live
flower