The problem is that I have a hard time distinguishing the reality from the myth in the Bible, especially in passages where it claims Jehovah spoke or gave a command.
Not sure why this would be the case. For example, just yesterday I picked up a book on the very early history of Rome: Everitt's, The Rise of Rome: The Making of The World's Greatest Empire. And in the preface found this comment about what his book contains:
Legend, the age of kings, wher most of the events never took place, at least not in the manner described; Story, the conquest of Italy and constitutional conflict, where fact and fiction cohabit; and History, the Republic as a Mediterranean power, where literary sources make a serious attempt at objectivity and accuracy.
So, the OT is like the stories about Rome: a mixture of legend, stories, and attempts at real history. The Flood is a legend, the Patriarchs are stories, and David is history (though not perfect, since history isn't perfect even now, as you know). I think it bothers you to hear anybody who is religious speak this way about scripture, but it is really an off-the-shelf version of Catholic and Jewish thinking.
Sometimes, his commands were brutal. I can just give an example on Jehovah regulating slavery. This is problematic for you.
I hope you can understand that the question, "Why weren't the Jews of 1,000 BC abolitionists?" doesn't even make sense except insofar as you approach the OT with some sort of fundamentalist approach. I keep trying to emphasize this point and nobody keeps listening. Why stop there? If the Jews were God's people, why didn't they have representative democracy with universal suffrage, child labor laws, and the EPA?
But didn't Jesus address this question? He said, "You were allowed to divorce because y'all were knuckleheads, but I tell you now that marriage is a lifetime proposition." Baby steps, KN, baby steps. That's how it works. Or, if you don't care for Jesus, how about Martin Luther King: "The arc of history is long, but it bends toward justice." Same idea.
Again, I could care less how they are "supposed to be viewed", whether by Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, or whatever "authority".
Well, now, you are making an error that is beneath you. Surely you learned in school that you must approach literature with an understanding of context. Who was writing, for what purpose, with what audience in mind, how he eas planning to make which point, etc. To say you don't care how the Jews intended their books to be read, or that you don't care what the Catholics were trying to do by collecting
this group of books and not some other group is simply a declaration that you don't intend to read the work honestly. You insist that you should be able to read scripture as if it were the universe's most accurate newspaper and, when you discover that it isn't, you insist it isn't worth anything at all. I'm sorry to say, that's not an educated way to approach
any piece of literature from
any time. And that really does mean you are doing it wrong.