You don't become an unethical person by refusing to harm any others, just because someone else decided to come and harm you or yours. - Tammy
Yes I think you do. Cofty
This gets to the core of my question. If I see somebody being beaten up in the street or sexually assaulted and I have the ability and equipment to stop the attack how could it possibly be ethical to walk on by? Even using deadly force if necessary to prevent somebody being murdered is an ethical obligation. What is the difference in principle on a national scale? cofty
Well, being a pacifist doesnt' mean you walk on by. There are other ways.
Regardless, I think it is individual choices and perspectives.
Lets say that some people are trying to change the world in the sense of hoping that we can move on to a better way. For them, that might mean never harming another person. Even though that could mean that they die for it. Sometimes a statement like that goes farther (in the long run) to making people consider something different, than the same-old same-old. I mean, we teach (in theory) our kids that violence is not the answer; but we teach them in deed something else entirely.
Note that I am not saying it is unethical to step in and defend someone... loved one or not. Just that it is not necessarily unethical to have a different approach. Both can be ethical, depending upon what is within that person making them act as they do. Pacifism isn't 'not acting'; it is just not acting in the norm.
Peace,
tammy