I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses 37 Replies latest social relationships

  • Scully
    Scully

    Dear Lilacs:

    Scully, those were my words. He didn't say it that way. What he said is that I always look great.
    It may be true that you always look great, but to bring that up as a reason for YOU to keep HIS unfaithful cheating ass, is SO lame of him. The message that I get from his words form the conditional nature of his perception of the relationship: you look great now and I'll keep sleeping with you, but if you gain a few pounds or wind up disfigured from an accident, I'm outta here!

    I'm glad you aren't letting him keep using you.

    Love, Scully

  • patio34
    patio34

    Just remember this:

    A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

    Relationships are nice, but not always necessary to happiness, IMNSHO. To me, it's like tennis, may be nice but not necessary.

    Pat

  • MrMoe
    MrMoe

    ((((((Lilacs)))))))

    Good for you! I know being alone can be tough, but I would rather be alone than to settle. Yes, you will be just fine. You are smart and beautiful and sweet. Many things for somebody who deserves you, so don't take anything less that the best!

    Kisses,
    Moe

  • Imbue
    Imbue

    Congratulations your living your signature *clapping for Lil*

    Crazy is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

  • SixofNine
    SixofNine

    note to self: take "grooming standards" language out of pre-nup before next meeting with Scully.

  • patio34
    patio34

    LOL Six!

  • waiting
    waiting

    LOL, six! (repeating my sister, btw).

    I also like Patio's quote: A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle. In other words, not necessary.

    In Psych Class, the prof (I know, it's only 101) brought up a study done with the title "Men are More Romantic Than Women" - and the researcher (a man) gave his proofs.

    When the prof. said the title of the research, he then had to wait until we all stopped laughing at him (men & women together) - then I said he'd better qualify his use of the word "romantic" anally tight.

    Well, it seems that men, upon breaking up with a woman they care about, tend to be upset longer than women - thus proving they were more romantic, as women tend to be more pragmatic, and "get on with their lives."

    Again, after we all stopped laughing at him, even the young women suggested the reasons that men were upset was because they had no one to do their laundry, shopping, washing, ironing, cleaning, etc. The prof. then just laughed and said this research never goes over well with women.

    Lilacs, it's much better to live with you, than live with a louse. You're much nicer in every way.........

    "In three words, I can sum up everything I've learned about life. It goes on." Robert Frost

    waydago, Lilacs, don't settle.

    waiting

  • Prisca
    Prisca

    Wow, Lilacs, can I relate to what you're going through right now.

    Last night I made a phone call that I should have made months ago. Before now, I just didn't have the guts to say "goodbye" and mean it.

    I've learnt that I don't need to settle. I'm not going to put up with bad treatment, not from anyone, especially anyone who thinks I'm then going to wrap my arms around him and give him my love.

    Nope. I deserve better than that!

  • LDH
    LDH

    Girls and boys I heard a great quote--

    "As soon as you settle for less than you deserve, you'll get less than you settled for."

    !!!Good for you Lilacs

    Lisa

  • LB
    LB

    Lilacs I'll be honest. A player will take that letter and use it to get what he wants. He will just convince you that you are the only one. If you felt strongly enough to write such a letter, I'd make sure you don't take him back. Once a guy can play his games, he'll continue.


    Never Squat With Yer Spurs On

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