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simplesally

Women write letters so men will refute them..........walk away. hang up the phone when he calls.

WildHorses

Thanks everyone,

I admit I always second guess my judgement. This being the reason I asked for your advise.

LB, thanks, I already thought about that, and HELL NO! Once I leave, thats it for me. That's why I always wait till I am sure before I do leave. I never go back.

Now, want to know what really p*ssed me off? He didn't show up at the store tonight so I couldn't give him the letter. But, not to worry, I just e-mailed it to him

Thanks again for reasuring me that I did the right thing.

Lilacs

I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.

WildHorses

Simplesally, I have caller ID and I will not be accepting his calls.

I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.

LB

Good for you Lilacs. I'm proud of you!

Never Squat With Yer Spurs On

WildHorses

LB, I'm proud of myself too and I have been invited to a pig picking two weeks from now and there will be plenty of single men.

awwwwwwwwwwww eye candy

I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.

plmkrzy

Too...THE...CURB

Don't EVEN be friends with him at least until a considerable amount of time has passed.

Then when you DO run into him, even if your having a really bad day, even if your cat got ran over that day, You are the happiest woman on earth.
Let him be the one to kick his own ass when he realizes what he lost.

Good for you Lilacs.

"I look to the sea, reflections in the waves spark my memory
Some happy,some sad"

styx

This one most definitely Happy

refiners fire

Shari.
Over the past couple weeks or so Ive noticed that you havent been yourself.
theres been a black streak coming thru in your posting that is unusual.I thought you sounded depressed.
IMO.
So, maybe theres been a crunch coming with this guy.
I can tell you, with my wife and her numerous old crony G friends, a lot of whom are single divorced women in the 40s range, Guys who arent willing to settle down into a mono relationship are everywhere.
This guy didnt TELL you he was screwing others, Did he? They never do.
Till you either find out by accident, or you confront them with questions.
This guy is a cocksman. He wouldnt be monogomous.
IMO.
If you want Mono. Look elsewhere.
sorry, I know its hard.

I may not be “in” love with you

Do you feel that you are incapable of being "in love" again?

WildHorses

Do you feel that you are incapable of being "in love" again?

If I found a man that was honest, kind hearted, selfless as I am. You bet your life on it!

I want to fall in love. Being in love is the best feeling there is, but only when it is two sided.

I am just more cautious than before. I guard my heart.

Lilacs

I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.

Hmmm

I think the letter is a little too nice. I'd be a little more forceful. If this guy was seeing other women (and if that means sleeping with other women and you) then he's a pig who will see your letter as a challenge. He'll probably do exactly what you want him to do just long enough for you to forgive him... then it'll be business as usual.

I'd definitely take out the "friends" part. That translates as "please stalk me."

Hmmm

WildHorses

Hmmmmmmmm, please check you hotmail account.

I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.

I am going to be just fine :)

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