a close paralell between atheistic (or anti-religious
That would be saying that atheistic is anti-religious. That is not necessarily true. I don't think we should tell others what to believe or that they can't be part of a religion---unless of course they have the power to deny other people's human rights---then it is an issue. Rather than say you can't be a Muslim anymore, I as an atheist would say, you can't shoot little girls in the face anymore, or deny them education, or execute homosexuals. If you PERSONALLY don't want to act on your homosexuality, or don't want to go to school, then don't. But you cannot prevent others.