Need Some Tough Love & Help

by Simon Morley 100 Replies latest jw friends

  • Simon Morley
    Simon Morley

    Fakesmile: I would love to take that route with her - but she would taken my gondads off in a blink of an eye right now.

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    I don't think that kind of tit for tat is healthly or helpful. I know she's hurt but dragging your daughter into it if she's as sensitive as you say isn't going to help the trust issue between you and your wife. It just seems a tad spiteful to me.

  • fakesmile
    fakesmile

    trust? BS. do what you do and dont apollagize. do you feel guilty for farting?

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    " I really need to win her trust back - long and hard road I know - but what works to do that? let the dust settle? she feels horribly betrayed."

    Promise to never do it again and then keep your word.

  • baltar447
    baltar447

    Wow. She feels like adultery would be EASIER to deal with?? O_o

  • fakesmile
    fakesmile

    and if you fancy the other gender, than you have to accept yourself. no apollogies. you are guilty of nothing.

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    Well he says he wants to keep her and the marriage. Kiss the porn bye-bye.

  • Simon Morley
    Simon Morley

    Avoiding is going to have to be route. Any ideas what worked for those who had an uphill battle with their wife?

  • fakesmile
    fakesmile

    mrs. j is right. you have a harpie who thinks you are disgusting for playing the skin flute. it is a choice between that or what sounds like an unhealthy relATIONSHIP. you must decide.

  • fakesmile
    fakesmile

    sorry for that ultimatim

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