Aroarer;
Great letter from your lawyer, and I'm really surprised the WTS is allowing the elders to continue with the judicial hearing. You've received some good advice I'd like to reemphasize from my own experience, and that might help your lawyer.
1. Have your lawyer ask for the the DETAILS of the allegation of apostasy. I can hardly believe that this body of elders put that in a LETTER to you. Putting anything like that in writing has been a no-no for a long time, exactly due to the legal implications for the WTS. But your lawyer should proceed to contact them for more detals, with the idea being that you cannot prepare an adequate defense if you don't know the specifics of the allegations. If they do that, you may want to seek some help from the board here finding quotes from the Society's own literature defending you from the allegations. And demand to have the specific scriptures you have violated listed. The elders are supposed to only take judicial action on a scriptural basis.
2. Get this latest development to RG at Dateline and to Peter Smith at the Lousiville Courier Journal, as I think he may have been in touch with you for his articles. You may already have done this.
3. When you contact the elders, ask them to justify their continued harrassment of your family in the light of WTS policy. You say you have not attended JW meetings for a few years, (and if you have been inactive for some time as well, all the better) and if there has been some publicity around your case then it should be common knowledge in the community that you no longer consider yourselves JWs. If that is the case, then it's WTS policy to leave you alone. Others on this site may be able to provide you with more specific info on that, though I see there is the link to that comment on the official WTS site. Make the elders justify why they are going contrary to the stated policy of the WTS towards people who have walked away from the Witnesses.
4. Make it clear that while you no longer consider yourself a Witness, being DA or DF is not an option, as these are DISCIPLINARY actions that result in the PUNISHMENT of shunning. Most non-Witnesses fail to recognize that. It is admitting you've done wrong when this is not the case. You've made it clear you want to be left alone, not punished and shunned because you accepted their "invitation" to disassociate yourself.
5. STRESS that you will take legal action - even against the local body of elders. Contrary to some comments here, the WTS takes that VERY seriously. This is the reason that the legal department at Bethel is HUGE. Letters from your lawyer, despite what some have indicated here, WILL have an impact. And all threats of legal action are immediatly relayed to Bethel.
6. You may be so high-profile that the WTS will take some real risks to get rid of you no matter what the cost to them. If so, make them pay. Publicity. A family being disfellowshipped because they stood up and spoke out against a pedophile who is still in the congregation - holy shit! That's a WTS nightmare. This isn't a preemptive strike against the Dateline program, this is a massive PR blunder.
If this is the level of thinking at Bethel and among the local elders, it is simply a foolish, desperate measure. It can only make them look more guilty and reprehensible. How do they think that punishing the victims of a pedophile is going to protect them?? Certainly not from the disgust of the people whose doors they knock on everyday. My god, is there no one with any common sense left in the WTS??
S4