When I speak of those clinging to the other side, they often can tell about objects moving and other manifestations. I in no way wanted to say that the existence of such people proves anything. Had some friends at school who were in no way spiritual, but things got a bit confusing for them when they were playing around with these things. Glass moving "by itself" a.s.o.
I do not counsel anyone to go into this because it is absolutely dangerous. Read about people being harassed bigtime when they started to quit mixing with evil spirits. Terrifying things happen once you want to break away from the influence of the demons who possess you.
Now to the other side. I visited many christian denominations and could tell about real healings firsthand. (deaf boy hearing perfectly after the healing or one woman with a large tumor in her brain that disappeared between two med checks...)
My miracle happened after I was searching God for about 20y plus. Mainly by trying to live by his principles, which I never was able to because my nature would not permit.
Then one evening while going to bed and trying to pray which once again did not work properly because many porn-pics took over in my head. Then something came over me that cleansed these ever persisting thoughts and pics and I was finaly free. After that I began to understand what I was reading in the bible. Things I read 20 times before suddenly got clear to me and I saw that all religion carries lies and deception as its mainly taken over by power hungry men who set up their own system of doctrines to build a fence around their property (disciples). This is also very true for the WT corp.
From that special evening on I was able to live a new and better life.
My experience can hardly be of any help for anyone else, but what could, would be to search for God and have patience. At his time God will reveal himself to you. Never give up!