Dear NonTT... may you have peace!
May I comment on your... ummmm... assertions? Thank you!
First, I would like to address the 'bad' husband/wife and 'embittered xjw's' thing:
I think that the WTBTS, while claiming to promote 'good' marriages, actually creates some very bad ones. How's that? Because when people LIVE A LIE... it permeates every part of that life. For instance, the 'good' elder/husband that the congregation sees, may not be the same 'evil' husband/father the family sees. Or the 'docile' pioneer/wife, who's really a shrieking harpy at home.
The WTBTS is SO concerned about cleansing the OUTSIDE of the dish, and LOOKING good to neighbors, co-workers, non-JW family, other JWs... that they entirely miss the point of cleansing the INSIDE... and actually BEING good... by promoting love... and not hate. Anything that doesn't agree with them is despised and hated. Thus, to a GREAT extent, they lack tact, pity, compassion, fellow-feeling.
They do not TEACH husbands and wives HOW to love each other... as the Christ loved the congregation... they simply reiterate the words. The Christ, on the other hand, tolerated much from his disciples, seldom grew impatient with them, certainly never maligned any of them, protected them, honored them, respected them... and not just when other folks were around to see.
And when they were tired, he ALLOWED them to rest. Jehovah's Witnesses are TIRED, NonTT. Exhuasted! And yet, they are not allowed to rest, not at all. Sure, the Master himself rested very little... but he did NOT impose on his disciples what HE knew to be too much for them. He NEVER burdened them. But the 'yoke' of the Society is great. It is burdensome, so burdensome that its leaders bind the people up with heavy loads even THEY can't carry. And the families suffer. Greatly.
The solution? If they would only stop directing people to THEMSELVES and their 'golden calf' organization ("we need something we can SEE while we wait for Moses/the Christ to return down off the mountain/Zion")... if they would only THEMSELVES heed the words of my Lord:
"Come to ME, all you who are toiling and loaded down.
Take MY yoke, for MY load is LIGHT... and you WILL find
'refreshment' for your souls."
And what is that "yoke"? Simple. Love. For God, for neighbor (including family)... and for one's enemies. In this way, one PROVES himself to be a son of his father. The WTBTS, on the other hand, oversteps that very commandment... by teaching 'hate'... for all who are not 'of their sort'. What a HEAVY load!
Now with regard to your comment that:
The term "world" as applied to non-Christians is a biblical term
I must disagree with you. The "world" is those who "hate" Christ's brothers, and judging by the WTBTS' overwhelming PRIDE in how the world views IT... and its members... they can't be Christ's brothers. Also, judging by their LIES (which originate from the wicked one)... AND their HATRED for those not 'like' them... not even being willing to listen to others' points of view as well as HELP someone in need, particularly an 'enemy' (and I refer mainly to those they 'expel' or 'disfellowship'), they again, overstep the commandment of God, as given by Christ in the parable of the Good Samaritan.
In THAT scenario, a Samaritan man, who was 'hated' by Jews, came to the aid of a Jew, when even his (the Jews) own people (including a Levite PRIEST!!)... walked on. Samartians were despised by Jews, and vice versa. Yet, out of pity and COMPASSION, this man lended his assistance. He didn't care about their differences, whether religious or not, or their relationship (the Jews and Samaritans were 'brothers'... but the Samaritants were despised because they had left off worshipping at the temple, which the Jews 'felt' to be TRUE worship!)
Now, as one of Christ's brothers, anointed by holy spirit with a TRUE anointing and not just some, "Well, I can't explain it" melarkey, I must tell you: the ONLY people in this entire world that hate me, that I KNOW of, are Jehovah's Witnesses. And, yes, they most certainly manifest it. Every time I enter the KHall and partake, you can almost hear the gnashing of teeth. You can certainly see the slitting of the eyes. And what harm have I done such ones? None, other than to tell them the truth, about who I am, who called me to be such... and what he commanded me to tell them. (Ezekiel 3:20, 21)
For that, because I would not be quiet... I was taken before their
'lower court/lesser Sanhedrin' and interrogated by a 'human tribunal', and finally, because I would NOT 'stop speaking about the things I had heard' but instead, obeyed GOD... rather than men... I was expelled. Disfellowshipped.
And even if I had been excommunicated from some other 'church' or religion, while they would have let me go, they would NOT have slandered me, nor treated me with contempt, in the process.
The 'world' hates me, NonTT... indeed. But, that 'world'... is the WTBTS... and it's 'children'.
I bid you peace.
A slave of Christ,
SJ