wouldn't it be nice if people actually realized that?? while i was in the org, i always felt like i had to 'have everything together.' you weren't allowed to make mistakes. that's such a big part of growing up and learning about yourself. even making mistakes in a relationship is sometimes beneficial. i dated a guy (non dub) for a year and a half. we really do love each other, but have come to realize that we just can't make things work. our priorities are so totally far off from each other. only time will let you realize that. unfortunately in the org you're not given the luxury of time....