Welcome MEtheMC and ((((((((warm hugs))))))))I'm sorry for the sudden loss of your mother, and your own health problems...and then having to deal with the whole antisocial/sociopathic JW stuff, well, more ((((((((warm hugs)))))))). You're going through a lot and I hope you are able to continue getting therapeutic support along with the friendly and caring support you will get here.
~Merry